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just random knowledge i acquired from men in my friend group, they think its weird to approach women outside of a bar or tinder apparently so if ur insecure about not getting asked out its not you, they dont know how to talk to women anymore
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Anonymous 1w

Where do women feel comfortable being approached?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

to make in general, public settings with other people around, during the day light, nothing that corners us or makes us feel like we need to say yes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Not true obviously. In public settings they reside with friends so that if you do so the ones non attractive will laugh at you about thinking that she could “possibly” be single and then move on due to lying about “having a boyfriend” and then go about their day Highly manipulative shit. It’s not socially acceptable to approach a woman, believing horse shit like this reply will put you in jail

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

It will not put you in jail. Lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Notice how you add the “lol” to the end of your statement because you know how stupid it is? Classic

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I did it bc yours sounded stupid

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Wait hold on my turn. Lol. Haha I got her guys! See how I did that? Her statement sounds so stupid, because I added “lol” to the end of it. That means I’m right Moral of the story. Don’t listen to shit like this. Its dangerous.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Literally what does that even mean

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

If you’re too stupid to understand what that means, how can we be inclined to believe that you’re giving out good advice? It’s basically the same as “you’re sad? Just don’t be sad anymore. Easy as that” Like no. People need to call stupid shit like this out so that you don’t spew it anymore. You know that would never work in a million fucking years. Seeing you post that is scary because of how many men might end up jailed because of it It. Is. Dangerous.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Ur weird man. I’m asking you how it would be dangerous or put a guy in jail. Going up to a girl and starting a convo will not. A lot of girls still want to be approached, but not in a way that can make them uncomfortable, bc a lot of guys don’t know how to talk to girls now

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

So this the game we playing? K You a whore. I’m asking you how what you’re saying is going to actually help someone. Being approached by a guy is actually a telltale sign that they want to abuse your consent because them being in your general vicinity is a threat to their lives, and you daring to do so is disrespectful to women. A lot of guys still want to approach women, but make no mistake, there is no good intentions behind it. They only exist to sexually assault you. Stay far away from it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

See how your line of “advice” doesn’t work? Give actual advice instead of horse shit like that, and maybe people will respect you more.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

U are actually insane

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

*loses argument* “Um reality is insane.” Remember that snakes like this exist bros. Don’t listen to what they spew

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I didn’t lose an argument. You insulted me when I tried to tell you how it is for us girls and how that isn’t true

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Because that’s not how it is for girls and everyone knows it. So calling out on bullshit like “man you feel upset about not being able to approach girls just do it LOL” like it’s just so fucking stupid you actually believe shit like this The idea you’d ever be able to understand someone else’s position is so absurd it makes me wonder if you’re actually a real person or a bot built on pushing narratives. There’s no way someone is that stupid

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Seriously tell me. What scenario would a guy walking up on you trying to be flirty would actually work? Go through it full detail.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

Bc it has? They were respectful and if I was interested I filtered back. If not, I respectfully declined and they went on about their day

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

And what do you mean “that’s not how it is for girls?” I’m a girl with girl friends please don’t tell me how it is

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

So you were never interested, it made you feel weird, and you wish it didn’t happen Give actual advice.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

I never said that. That’s literally not what I said. And what advice? What do you want

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

I will and I will continue to do it. You’re a disingenuous lying fuck and you deserve to be opposed for saying the dumb shit you’ve said tonight Give actual advice

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

Escaping reality because wrong. Wowies

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

I’m not giving advice when someone is insulting me during a conversation. I did nothing wrong, but you’re a dumbass who can’t get girls in real life, so you take it out online

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

“I’m not giving advice when someone points out how fucking stupid and ridiculous the shit I spew actually is. You should just believe that the fake scenarios I talk about actually exist” It’s actually so pathetic. I hope people in real life never listen to you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

“Ykw… you’re a loser!!!” Remember that when I vote against abortion again and again. I exist to be against you. If I’m a loser, that’s fine. Don’t think I will ever not oppose you. Rants like what you did are why.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

i think you have had some clearly very bad experiences or you read things on reddit. yes some girls are mean and I dont know why people feel comfortable shaming others like that but you cant generalize all women.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

and some of the things you have said are very aggressive, if this is how you talk to people in real life you may want to try to become kinder and girls might say yes. but im not trying to put people in jail for asking me out, i just dont want to meet my husband on a dating app

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