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Ask Women 14h
women who try to recruit female thirds for their boyfriends (outside of swinger/polyam forums) emit a foul ghislaine-adjacent vibe #truthnuke
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Anonymous 13h

as a bi woman the straight couples looking for thirds are annoying, esp on dating apps where i do nothing to indicate im looking for that 🫩

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Anonymous 12h

Yeah…. I had a girl at a club try. She was cute but I 💯 thought I’d be sold somehow and it reinforced my “don’t go home with anyone” rule. I’ll flirt, I’ll makeout in the corner, but I’m going home alone or with the friend I came with.

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Anonymous 14h

Not a question. Also true

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

not a question ☝️🤓

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

They ALWAYS use the girls photo too

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 12h

and they always tag themselves as "woman," which means they show up for lesbians :|

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

they always say they’re women, and then i never know if the age is the woman’s age, both their ages, an average, unless they say. or like on hinge i get excited to see a woman in my likes and then i get to her and it’s a couple like UGHHHH. one time on tinder i saw one where the man was actually terrifying to look at i screenrecorded the bio and added it to my album of insane dating app moments bc it shocked me so bad.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12h

i cropped out the man’s face but it was truly a jumpscare. also under covid vaccine they were “prefer not to say” 😬

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12h

WOW

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12h

All of this is a no for me

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12h

Ew.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10h

And I really don’t care if it makes me paranoid. Something happened while under the influence once and never again. Being careful at a club wouldn’t have helped anyway because I knew him but I refuse to give him the power to mess with my life beyond what he did. I’m a beer or soda person and a water in between, if I feel a tiny bit woozy I’m out, resting, and eating with a soda, if it helps then home to bed.

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