Anonymous #1 7w

not a question ☝️🤓

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Anonymous #2 7w

They ALWAYS use the girls photo too

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 7w

and they always tag themselves as "woman," which means they show up for lesbians :|

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Anonymous OP 7w

they always say they’re women, and then i never know if the age is the woman’s age, both their ages, an average, unless they say. or like on hinge i get excited to see a woman in my likes and then i get to her and it’s a couple like UGHHHH. one time on tinder i saw one where the man was actually terrifying to look at i screenrecorded the bio and added it to my album of insane dating app moments bc it shocked me so bad.

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Anonymous #2 7w

i cropped out the man’s face but it was truly a jumpscare. also under covid vaccine they were “prefer not to say” 😬

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Anonymous #2 7w

WOW

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Anonymous #2 7w

All of this is a no for me

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Anonymous #2 7w

Ew.

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Anonymous #4 7w

And I really don’t care if it makes me paranoid. Something happened while under the influence once and never again. Being careful at a club wouldn’t have helped anyway because I knew him but I refuse to give him the power to mess with my life beyond what he did. I’m a beer or soda person and a water in between, if I feel a tiny bit woozy I’m out, resting, and eating with a soda, if it helps then home to bed.

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Anonymous #5 7w

for threesomes

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Anonymous OP 7w

Where is the best place for women to recruit “female thirds”? Also I’m a dude. I’m not asking for advice I just am curious in general how people can not offend others

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Anonymous #5 7w

Dating sites, but a girl flirted with me in a club and tried.

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Anonymous #5 7w

It didn’t work & both of those people are usually looked down on by everyone they try with. Though I assume it must work sometimes. Honestly they should just look into joining a swingers group where people would be into their yums.

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Anonymous #5 7w

i don't know, a kink app or board or whatever. or a dating app where you can filter out monogamous people

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Anonymous OP 7w

Maybe women on dating apps should just put in their profile description their interest in recruiting a third so there’s no misunderstanding

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Anonymous #5 7w

they often do, but part of the issue is that in the app like initial setup where u put gender, age, etc, they always put the woman’s info and much less of the man’s, which can be really frustrating for us sapphics who aren’t looking for that. the common term for bisexual woman willing to be a third for a straight couple is a “unicorn”, and usually these women will have that on their dating profile if they’re into that. i don’t but i still get likes from these ppl which can be frustrating

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Anonymous #5 7w

the default is no. unfortunately part of the kink for some of these "people" is luring women who AREN'T looking for that

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Anonymous OP 7w

If that is the intention then that changes things. I wonder if that is always the intention though

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Anonymous #2 7w

Maybe there can be couple’s profiles on dating apps

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