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I think this woman I care about thinks I hate her, but in reality I care about her. In the past we talked on and off. Shes seen me talk with mutual friends that are women, so I can imagine what’s going through her head. I have 0 feelings for those women.
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Anonymous 32w

Have any women been on the other side of the situation that I am explaining? I don’t hate her. I just wish she knew that me not talking to her is because of my own feelings and nothing she did.

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Anonymous 32w

She 100% thinks you hate her

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 32w

Maybe try explaining that to her instead of leaving her in the dark??

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Anonymous 32w

That’s the situation with this woman for me. I used to talk to her. Then went from hot to cold to hot to cold again. I closed off, because I don’t want to continue getting close to her, without fully understanding what I want. I’m forming a love bond in the most unhealthy way possible, and setting my heart up to likely be broken.

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