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I’ve seen a lot of people say it’s a “red flag” or “ick” when a man approaches multiple women in the same day, but I don’t see why. I mean is it not just shooting your shot and not taking rejection badly? Someone please explain what the problem is
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Anonymous 18w

Because it seems obvious that person doesn’t actually have feelings for anyone they ask

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18w

This, is just looks desperate, like they want a girlfriend as a status symbol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18w

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18w

But if you’re approaching them, you’re not gonna know anything about them anyways, thus why you get to know them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

If I watch a guy I have a crush on ask a girl out, get rejected, then ask me, I would feel like shit. I would think I’m a rebound and that’s gross

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

I mean obviously it’s different if it’s just a “Hi I think you are really attractive may I have your number” but doing it too many times seems desperate. You’d probably say the same thing if a woman approached multiple men at a club or bar.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 18w

I don’t think I would say the same thing but thanks for the explanation. Would you say just one a day or every few days is better?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

Honestly you can do it once a day. Just not in the same area. Going up to people at college constantly would give you a bad rep. Going up to people at the mall would be less weird. You see what I mean,

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