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My gf started following a guy she worked with twice and quit the job after a few days of working there. I’m wondering why she’d follow him if she was planning on being done. (This guy is really attractive and I’m feeling really insecure about it) help
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Anonymous 36w

Sometimes men and women are friends with each others. There’s a chance it could be that

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Anonymous 36w

People can be friends with old co workers and still want to keep in touch when they get new jobs. I follow a few old co workers myself and check in with the crew from time to time bc we were a close knit community of ppl

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Anonymous 36w

you can ask her. if you're feeling insecure, the healthy thing to do is to talk about it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 36w

She knew she was leaving the job and moving so it’s not like a friendship was going to happen anyway

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 36w

You’ve never been friends with your coworkers before? I follow a bunch of old coworkers on social media Even if she was moving to another state or another country, that doesn’t mean a friendship can’t happen. I have plenty of friends overseas

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 36w

If he’s moving that’s even more reason to get his information and I use social media like Instagram like old people use Facebook. Celebrate moments and hype ppl up passively.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 36w

They met twice and that was it lol she’s not someone to have online friends it had nothing to do with friendship

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 36w

Who are you to dictate how she can make friends and who they are? They worked together I don’t see what’s funny other than your reaping insecurity. I don’t think making friends is a big deal

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 36w

How do you know they’ve only met twice?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 36w

Have you ever worked two shifts and became friends with a coworker in that period of time? What are you talking about

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 36w

Ahh she’s my gf and she quit after two shifts??

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 36w

And why is she only working 2 shifts at a job she just got hired at? And yeah? Ppl can click on the first day

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