Ask Women on Sidechat | How come when I, a man, say that I don’t need a wife/girlfriend, girls call me either a loser, an incel, part of the natural selection, and gay? I don’t hate women, i just like being single. Are men who are single just naturally deemed losers by you guys?

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How come when I, a man, say that I don’t need a wife/girlfriend, girls call me either a loser, an incel, part of the natural selection, and gay? I don’t hate women, i just like being single. Are men who are single just naturally deemed losers by you guys?

Anonymous 1w

it depends how you say it. if you're out there loudly proclaiming that you don't want to be around "females" because they're all sluts or whatever, yeah you sound like an incel. if someone asks you whether you're seeing anyone and you say "no, I honestly just prefer to be single," I can't imagine anyone would think less of you for that.

Anonymous 1w

Not at all, to me its the reasons a guy would be single and unfortunately a lot of single guys on the internet end up towards the loser/incel category because of the things they say and do

Anonymous 6d

Because for straight men it feels nice to put penis in vagina, and there is a drive to do that at least. A drive to have kids. A drive to love a woman... If you don't feel those feelings you may not be straight. And that is ok!