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why is it considered slutty if a woman likes to get men off and doesn’t necessarily need anything in return, but it’s not slutty if a man is a munch. (woman here who just got into an argument about this)
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Anonymous 18w

Because the patriarchy views women as “innocent”

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Anonymous 18w

Misogyny

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Anonymous 18w

Make it normal to not sex shame sigh

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Anonymous 18w

Preach

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Anonymous 18w

Tf is a munch? I swear I don’t live under a rock, I just never understood what this meant.

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Anonymous 18w

this is a great point

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Anonymous 18w

Honestly speaking guys who are easy look cheap. If u enjoy casual sex, I respect that. It’s ur life. To me, i hold more special meaning to sex and against casual sex, so I can say i dont find a promiscuous guy attractive. But if a guy enjoys sex w anyone and calls a girl out for doing the same, i think that’s self-centered and kinda stupid lol

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Anonymous 18w

I wish tbh

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Anonymous 17w

Some men unironically believe this, and spew it all over the internet. I had to help un-brainwash my boyfriend from all this nonsense because it was kinda making… dating… impossible.

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Anonymous 18w

I mean a munch is kinda slutty tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18w

an unfortunate circumstance

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

10000%

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 18w

I’d rather be a munch than a guy who calls women sluts while being slutty himself

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 18w

it’s a guy who loves to go down on women

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

Oh ok

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18w

They see us as either innocent or whores apparently, very little in between

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 17w

Yeah. Or brainwashed. Some guys who think this way genuinely mean no harm by it, they just never thought to question the bullshit they hear online.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 17w

And if you’re outspoken, they call you a whore to get people to stop listening to you, even if you’re a virgin

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