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My bf and I have been together a year. I graduate in May and was planning on moving to his hometown where he lives. He is not for sure about me yet or me moving but also doesn’t know if he can do distance any longer. What would you do? I feel stuck.
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Anonymous 2w

you've been together for a year and he's "not sure" about you?? darling LEAVE him

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Anonymous 2w

My now fiancé and I were together for 6 months when he told me he’s going to marry me. My mom kicked me out a month into us dating at 18, and 7 months in, his parents let me move in for a few months till we started our sophomore year of college. Moved in together officially to an apartment and have been together for well over 3 years. If he’s unsure about YOU and it’s been a year, he’s not worth it. Run girl

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Anonymous 2w

Usually, it takes 8 months for couples to comfortably move in with each other. If it’s over that, then either he is just afraid of intimacy or what’s more likely is that he isn’t committed to you. I would say leave him.

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Anonymous 1w

if he is unsure, he is probably thinking of ways to keep you around in the situations he thinks youll break up with him for

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