"well one day i was just done and i told her everything" so you unleashed the emotional dam you'd been building up on her and she didn't like it?

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Anonymous #3 2w

The victim blaming is insane. She asked him to open up, and he did. Then she basically spat in his face with her response. And you’re blaming him for that? Imagine someone crying to you, of any gender, and your response is “I wish you had never done that”. You’re a pos for defending that.

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Anonymous #6 2w

And all you refuse to engage with this post and the fact that women who are feminist are literally advocating for equality and less patriarchy and less toxic masculinity🫩 do you consider yourself a feminist?

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Anonymous #8 2w

pro dating tip: don't withhold emotions then suddenly dump them on your partner when you're "done". doesn't matter what gender you are

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That’s one woman and yeah that was shitty of her. But the expectation that men are not supposed to open up is a narrative created and spread by men. And when the standard male archetype becomes the unemotional man, some women and men alike will come to expect it of all men at all times. It’s up to you guys to stop calling each other “gay” or “bitch” for showing emotion first.

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How are you going to tell me what I’m advocating for??

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She wanted you to share your emotions in a healthy way not wait for them to build up so much that you are “just done and told her everything”

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Men never learned emotional intelligence. There are bad times to open up and it’s on you to recognize that

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Anonymous #3 2w

Pro tip: Learn to have empathy instead of getting angry when someone cries to you

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Every man I’ve been with has been 10x more emotional than me and I love being an emotional anchor for my male friends . I see now that you and your circle of society have been exposed to a lot of BS and I’m sorry for you. Have you ever considered that maybe conforming to certain standards and suppressing your emotions in a toxic form JUST because women don’t like it isn’t a healthy way to live? If you wanna be all macho then do it for you, not because that’s what women want.

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“Men are only loved when providing something” goddamn you need to start talking to better people. I’m so curious as to where you live

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Anonymous #4 2w

I never called any guy “gay” or a bitch for showing emotions so why are you blaming me? Do you not realize your sexism painting all men with one brush? That’s like if I said all women are cheaters. Also if you know the ancient origins of why OTHER men told each other not to cry, that started because emotional men weren’t considered attractive, and still largely aren’t, as you see with the downvotes. They said it as advice to their sons so they wouldn’t get rejected. And so the cycle started.

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Anonymous #8 2w

The ancient origins💀 bro ur probably 21 how tf would you know

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Anonymous OP 2w

Because it literally is from ancient origins? The idea that men shouldn’t cry has been in existence for thousands of years because emotional men would get ostracized by society, by both men AND women. And yes I am 21 I just turned 21 yesterday

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Anonymous #8 2w

Should I even bother asking for a source?

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Anonymous #7 2w

As if plenty of women don’t also contribute to misogyny

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Anonymous #1 2w

Downvote when you know it’s true lmao

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Anonymous #8 2w

I think the ancient origins stem from Greek mythology where only strong men who could commit extreme violence on enemies were considered valuable by other men. I mean look at the Illiad and Achilles wrath. Alas we don’t fucking know bc we are in 2026 so no one knows the “ancient origins” of toxic masculinity for sure lmao, it’s all just guesses. You just want to blame women

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Anonymous OP 2w

No response just downvotes bc yall have no good academic sources for women being the “ancient origin” for toxic masculinity 🤡

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Anonymous OP 2w

When did the say women were the ancient origin for toxic masculinity? Please use reading comprehension skills

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Anonymous #9 2w

Nobody needs to be nicer to men theres no loneliness epidemic all this shit i keep seeing in these depressed guy bubbles that they live in is pathetic. Just accept yourself for who you are and you may just attract type of people you want to be around.

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Anonymous #9 2w

what if men were just nicer to men?

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Anonymous #3 2w

Trump will enact state mandated girlfriends for all single women for every man. Hope that helps!

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Anonymous #9 2w

cool story bro

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Anonymous #9 2w

is this like a trump fanfic you're writing or...

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Anonymous #3 2w

Bold of you to assume #9 knows how to read. Everyone will get a pony and a toothbrush

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Anonymous #10 2w

😂

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Anonymous #3 2w

We will have a pony based economy mandatory tooth brushing laws zombie apocalypse readiness & time travel research funding

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