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I don’t understand why she is crying and upset even tho she is the one that rejected me
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Anonymous 3w

She probably feels really bad. If you are close (as friends) she could also feel hurt, especially if she thinks you approached/were her friend with that intent. She also could be upset about loosing the friendship.

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Anonymous 3w

Ya then she definitely is upset about losing contact with you

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Anonymous 3w

Do you still text or talk to her? She’s most likely upset that she lost you as a friend

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Anonymous 3w

Empathy? After breaking up with my ex, I was only sad about it when I put myself in his shoes. Also just loss in general, change. Just because a choice is better doesn’t mean it’s easy

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Anonymous 3w

Dude just try staying friends w her there r so many ppl out there who want someone but choose to still stay friends

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

i think you’re right I asked her out 2 weeks ago and she said no. Said thanks and moved on. We known each other since middle school, got closer last year

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Haven’t talked/texted since she rejected me

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

I want to but it’s so awkward now between me and her

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

U can address that directly, be like I know things r awkward btwn us rn but I just want to let u know that I value our friendship & wld be willing to maintain it if ur willing. & also apologize u cld say smn like, & I’m sorry if I made u uncomfortable & crossed ur boundaries. Bcs honestly bro if u rlly do value her friendship u just got to do smn abt it or you’ll regret it, also don’t be a pussy, act on how u feel

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Do what you want. You don’t owe her friendship

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