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How do I nicely tell my bf no more stuffed animals id rather that money be spent on a date 😭
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Anonymous 9w

I’ve told my bf that before, and guess what, never have I gotten a stuffy ever again🤣 he knows to either buy me wine, or take me out to the bar 🤣

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Anonymous 9w

i had to tell my man that as much as i loveeee stuffies, i am a grown woman and only need so many 😭 from then on i only got them on valentine’s day

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Anonymous 9w

“Communication”

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Anonymous 9w

Exactly like that

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Anonymous 9w

had to do this because my mom kept buying me gimmicky tee shirts of shows we like (i don’t wear a lot of graphic tees so i was sleeping in them) and i had to tell her that i didn’t have any more room to store them. just frame it as a future thing instead of commenting on the past. “stuffies made me happy and moving forward this other thing will and stuffies probably won’t.” but in whatever way you talk to him normally

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Anonymous 8w

My bf kept getting my flowers (he’s so sweet I love him) but they became work bc I had to cut them and take care of them, and it was always the days I was having a bad day and had NO energy. They always died in a week no matter what (I’m not good with plants sue me) and he stopped getting me flowers but now he gets me cosmic brownies/kitkats

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Anonymous 9w

just say ur running out of space or something idrk

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Anonymous 9w

Just tell him? You don’t know how to communicate?

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Anonymous 7w

I’ll be so fr I thought he was buying you taxidermy at first 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

don’t be rude omg

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

What is this image lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Dr Hakim, the “love doctor” from the video game “it takes two”, which is all about repairing a failing couples marriage. He has a heavy accent and despite sounding like a joke, actually gives thoughtful and meaningful advice. (Look it up on YouTube)

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

Ohhh interesting ty

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

I see the tone but understand. Just telling him definitely works

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 8w

Oof. That’s rough

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

So holding people accountable is rude these days? Explain how that was rude

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 8w

I wouldn’t mind flowers instead of stuff animals

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