Ask Women on Sidechat | Am I alone in this? I would rather a guy at a bar/club hitting on me offer me his number as opposed to asking for mine. I feel like this is less aggressive, gives me time to accept but think before texting and makes me feel safer.

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Am I alone in this? I would rather a guy at a bar/club hitting on me offer me his number as opposed to asking for mine. I feel like this is less aggressive, gives me time to accept but think before texting and makes me feel safer.

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Anonymous 6w

The reason we never do this is that we will never hear back from 99/100 women by doing this. You guys never message first generally speaking

Anonymous 6w

yeah, but that would also mean that you would have to message first and a lot of women normally don’t do that because even though he started the interaction, you have to start the texting interaction

Anonymous 6w

No same frfr

Anonymous 6w

2 is blocked for me 😬

Anonymous 6w

#8 but atp I feel like I need that filtering. Not that I’m getting play like that, but a lotta the bullshit I’d be dealing with in my head would at least be easier for me if the girl technically texted first

Anonymous 6w

Hey sup what’s your #

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Anonymous

#2 6w

😂

Anonymous

#2 6w

867-5309

Anonymous

OP 6w

Area code?

-7

Anonymous

#2 6w

lol it’s a joke. It’s from a song

Anonymous

OP 6w

So still give me ur number. dude.

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Anonymous

#2 6w

678-999-8212

Anonymous

OP 6w

Yooo she said 67

Anonymous

#5 6w

That’s kinda the point. If I was into you I would. But the fact is the hottest guy could approach me and I, being shy, would shit down and not respond well. When in reality I’m shy not, not interested.

Anonymous

#6 6w

creepy guy asking for her number

Anonymous

OP 6w

yeah, that’s honestly fair

Anonymous

#2 6w

Yea dude, give her your social security number. Go fuck yourself you creep why you acting like they owe it to you 😒

Anonymous

#5 6w

That tracks

Anonymous

#2 6w

I think it says a lot that you're being met with such hostility just for saying that

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Anonymous

OP 6w

Jenny is that you??? pls call me back /j

Anonymous

#8 6w

sure, maybe. but for a girl you like, you’d be willing to wait, not get instant gratification. I waited for my current gf to text me back. and plus how would you ever know if you didn’t try

Anonymous

#8 6w

Anonymous

OP 6w

Or just do what everyone does and give your number and just ghost and block afterwards. It’s that simple

Anonymous

#12 6w

There is no instant gratification getting a girls number means relatively nothing. Neither does going on a first date in terms of getting a relationship.