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Am I alone in this? I would rather a guy at a bar/club hitting on me offer me his number as opposed to asking for mine. I feel like this is less aggressive, gives me time to accept but think before texting and makes me feel safer.
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Anonymous 17h

The reason we never do this is that we will never hear back from 99/100 women by doing this. You guys never message first generally speaking

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Anonymous 20h

No same frfr

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Anonymous 18h

yeah, but that would also mean that you would have to message first and a lot of women normally don’t do that because even though he started the interaction, you have to start the texting interaction

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Anonymous 18h

2 is blocked for me 😬

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Anonymous 15h

#8 but atp I feel like I need that filtering. Not that I’m getting play like that, but a lotta the bullshit I’d be dealing with in my head would at least be easier for me if the girl technically texted first

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Anonymous 20h

Hey sup what’s your #

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

867-5309

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

Area code?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

lol it’s a joke. It’s from a song

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

So still give me ur number. dude.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

678-999-8212

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Yooo she said 67

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 18h

That’s kinda the point. If I was into you I would. But the fact is the hottest guy could approach me and I, being shy, would shit down and not respond well. When in reality I’m shy not, not interested.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 18h

creepy guy asking for her number

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

yeah, that’s honestly fair

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

Yea dude, give her your social security number. Go fuck yourself you creep why you acting like they owe it to you 😒

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 18h

That tracks

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

I think it says a lot that you're being met with such hostility just for saying that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Jenny is that you??? pls call me back /j

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 6h

sure, maybe. but for a girl you like, you’d be willing to wait, not get instant gratification. I waited for my current gf to text me back. and plus how would you ever know if you didn’t try

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