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What would you do if you saw someone beating up your bf and your bf refused to fight back? Would you be less attracted to your bf and go for the stronger guy?
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Anonymous 3w

No, this is a weird question to keep asking here lol

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Anonymous 3w

Why would anyone ever go for a violent man?

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Anonymous 3w

I think my first concern would be why somebody attacked him 😭

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Anonymous 3w

Like, he was literally being beaten up? That’s serious. If someone is taking swings and he isn’t fighting back I’d respect him even more.

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Anonymous 3w

No? It depends entirely on the situation and what’s appropriate

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Anonymous 3w

Is this that one dude that keeps posting about how he’ll beat up someone’s bf to prove that he’s strong bc he’s short

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Anonymous 3w

True strength comes from knowing when it’s needed

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Anonymous 3w

yeah kind of.

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Anonymous 3w

Lol u can’t ask these kind of question, u just have to see reality. Nothings a 100% but I promise many women will subconsciously be turned off seeing their man lose a fight, given that it’s a fair one. I think many women would be more nurturing and loving if they saw their man get attacked by bunch of masked dudes and got beat up

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Why on earth would I go for the guy who beat up my boyfriend lmao? This sounds like a Disney movie plot

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Why are men so obsessed with being able to physically harm people as an expression of masculinity

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

I mean would I go for the assailant? no. but would I think less of my bf if he couldn’t even hold his own or fight back? I don’t want to date someone who can’t defend me if I was being attacked!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

FAIR point

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Money, thought he was an easy target, Wanted to show dominance

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

That’s how it’s done in the animal kingdom

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

We’re not the same as other animals, that logic shouldn’t be applied here

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

humans are animals, we are part of the animal zoological classification.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

Correct, but I’m assuming you’re not advocating for us to stop wearing clothes, simplify our language, and start committing incestuous rape etc, we are not on the same level of social development as wild animals

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

right but its biologically ingrained. same exact reason women love and prefer tall males to shorter males- it JUST makes them feel more biologically safer.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

What’s the biological reason for women liking twinks with little slutty waists

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

Men getting excited about hurting other people doesn’t make me feel safe actually

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

This actually made me laugh out loud 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I know he doesn’t go that way but Troye Sivan and Troye Sivan in drag.. need

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3w

Aye one piece reference

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 3w

You know? That actually makes sense!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

You raise a lot of good points

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 3w

I’m ngl I started packing heat when my partner and I moved to the city, so the only one in need of being nurtured would be whoever had the nerve to jump us 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

Yeah havin a blick is always best option but being able to fight is also important for life

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