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“Male loneliness epidemic” is the white man’s equivalent of blaming systemic racism for their own failures
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“Male loneliness epidemic” you do know single women exist too right?
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Anonymous 6w

“A made-up term to help narcissistic men feel more victim to women simply wanting partnership instead of mothering a grown man” WILL NEVERRER be the equivalent of “we were forced into slavery for hundreds of years, persecuted and banished, and were never repaid for the debt of creating the country we live in therefore we could never build any lasting wealth or fortune”

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Anonymous 6w

The male loneliness epidemic is not the same as systemic racism. Do you even know what systemic racism ACTUALLY is. Bc systemic racism is not the same as the blanket term of racism

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Anonymous 6w

The make loneliness epidemic isn’t a white guy thing 🤦🏿‍♂️

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Anonymous 6w

If anything minority men are bigger victims than white men of the loneliness epidemic this question is uninformed lmao

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Anonymous 6w

Men of color are overrepresented in the incel community btw. Stats show women like white guys the most

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Anonymous 6w

meant to click disagree, but i think it’s less on racism and more on sexism going from being normalized and accepted to women not taking shit simply for being women. self inflicted yes, because good men have partners or are able to get good partners if that’s what they want.

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Anonymous 6w

male loneliness epidemic = recent online term by men who were failed by their own patriarchy and instead shift the blame onto women systemic racism = centuries of the white man consistently pushing down minorities that despite there not being jim crow and slavery now, still shows lasting effects to this day how r these even on the same playing field rn for which is real or not…?

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Anonymous 6w

I DIDNT MEAN TO AGREEEEEE

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Anonymous 6w

Us white men prefer the term “pale face” to white. Please respect our preferences

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Women and men don’t owe anyone anything, same with how whites and black people don’t owe each other anything

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

We all owe each other our best. This individualistic mindset is exactly why we are all so disconnected from our neighbor. We DO owe people something and that is our best self.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Male loneliness epidemic still doesn’t exist

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Depends on what you think that term means, because from the academic sense it certainly does.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

systemic racism is also a made up term too. We don’t owe men anything at all

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Male loneliness epidemic doesn’t exist and system racism doesn’t exist either. Both of them terms are made up by low quality narcissistic men

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Dr. King ended systemic racism with the civil rights movement, before that systemic racism did exist before 1965

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Ok

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Systematic racism is most definitely a thing I hate to pop your bubble. An entire race of people were excluded from owning bank accounts, having places in “white” areas and so many more VERY important things you need to build and establish lasting wealth and take into consideration how racist and cruel our white American ancestors were that definitely bled into personal matters like your level of care at a hospital, an extension on a payment ANYTHING. Slavery ended 400 years ago but

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Seriously cruel and racist people were the MAJORITY of the middle to LATE 1900s. The last school to be desegregated LEGALLY was in 2016.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

That’s why we celebrate MLK day.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

If you think for one second that had zero change in creating generation wealth and good life habits then you are just simply to ignorant to understand and I can't spend another minute explaining basic American HISTORY to YOU.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

We don’t owe generational wealth to anymore, it’s like saying women owe dates to men

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

You realize there’s a lot of poor white too with no generational wealth

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Ok so you truly are ignorant, you don't even make sense anymore, is this a mf bot I'm arguing with?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Oh please shut the fuck up

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

No one was guaranteed anything in America.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

If you think decades of minorities fighting for equal rights and then the gov saying “get minority damn” and giving them the most basic rights ever while still creating racism through it under the table with a blind eye is the same as men’s lack of communication and confidence to attract women that are wanting more than something transactional and temporary I have some sad news for you

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

I think op is trying to use a conservative anology to show that lonely epidemic doesn't actually. It's usually conservative that doesn't believe in systemic racism

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

*exist

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

The epidemic isn’t even a white male thing they can’t blame systemic racism for that unless they’re racist and insecure. Bc it’s not like minorities are taking their women or any woman and making less women for them to pursue. So how would that be the blame…everyone’s lonely

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

Probably. That’s why I tried to think the only reason a person would blame systemic racism for their loneliness is if they’re just already racist and want to point fingers

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

You don’t see immigrants and most minorities about the “male loneliness epidemic” they always complain about other issues

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Bc those issues are more serious and important than you not finding a girl that’ll tolerate you

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

I’d think the gov trying to take your family away from you and being discriminated against are far bigger issues to worry about than simply finding a gf

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

I’m conservative I believe that system racism doesn’t exist

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

just because we gained the right to vote and own land doesnt mean systemic racism is gone. Centuries of damage r still very much imbedded into our nations foundation. Things as simple as generational wealth being harder for black ppl to obtain is a result of systemic racism that bleeds into our modern day.

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Anonymous replying to -> username4444 6w

So true

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Anonymous replying to -> username4444 6w

The majority of Americans are white so ofc they’ll want someone of the same race but you can’t really speak for all of us on what race we’d date

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