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Is it unmanly to tell a girl I want to take it slow
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Anonymous 14w

no it’s sexy

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Anonymous 14w

Nope, this shows communication skills and honesty

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Anonymous 14w

No this is acc a green flag!

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Anonymous 14w

No, you have your boundaries and I’m sure she will appreciate that you’re communicating this

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Anonymous 12w

Compared to what, the manly alpha male that fucks everything in sight immediately? You’re fine.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

Doesnt feel like it, she’s all upset and taking it personally. I’m an indecisive bitch

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

If I told a dude I wanted to take it slowly and he got all upset and took it personally, I would take it as a red flag and probably stop talking/dating. If she can’t handle boundaries, she’s not worth your time.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Like #3 said, consent is not just for women. If she doesn’t respect your boundaries, that is absolutely a problem with her and a red flag. If you don’t want to do it, it’s not true consent, a lie at best. Don’t do it, man.

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