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Ask Women 23h
I miss my best friend. But she’s been MIA after she got married. Friends for 15 yrs & I got invited morning of & obv couldn’t make it. We like 5 min away from each other but haven’t seen her in close to a yr. She’s hard to link with now. Any advice?
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Anonymous 22h

Show up at the door

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Anonymous 22h

Send a gift basket maybe “congrats on the wedding” some wine glass sets or some wine w chocolate

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Anonymous 19h

🚩 She probably needs you more than she knows. This is NOT normal couple behavior. He is probably controlling and/or abusive. Not sure what to do immediately. If you let on that you suspect him of anything, he might cut you off completely. I’m not really in a position to give advice, but maybe look into it.

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Anonymous 23h

Nope. She’s wifed up now

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

But why can’t she have friends too? She literally stopped talking to all her friends lol. Guaranteed her husband still has his.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

What is the husbands political leaning or religious background? Does your friend work or is she a stay at home?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

They’re not religious. She stays at home full time. No kids.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22h

I’m not doing that. I’ve tried initiating multiple hang outs, she clearly knows I wanna see her. I’ll respect her space.

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