Anonymous #8 2w

Thanks, I agree

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Anonymous OP 2w

what they mean is it’s a pretty common thing for girls to do, so if you didn’t want that to happen, then you should have set a boundary about it beforehand

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Anonymous OP 2w

You clearly wanted a biased answer so why ask? I don’t think the ppl agreeing with you are even women. We really mean women talk about their sex lives. That’s normal. But we don’t really go into extreme detail either. Talk with her and set boundaries. Did you ever ask her exactly what she talked about though and how it makes you feel? It’ll help her understand that she shouldn’t do that

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Anonymous OP 2w

Ofc it’s not, but no one has the power to make all women have morals

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 2w

why’s there a need to set a boundary beforehand, just don’t do that shit tf?

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Anonymous #10 2w

Bc women are usually open about their romantic lives with friends compared to men. If men can constantly talk about and compare dick sizes women talk about their sex lives and new partners. It’s not as deep as men make it out to be. But if you honestly don’t like it just tell that person? Idk how communicating is such a hard task to ppl sometimes goodness

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Anonymous #7 2w

She more than likely was just talking about if she enjoyed it or not. A vast majority of women are not going into extreme detail or womansplaining what you did to them or what your dick is like. It’s usually a simple “I slept with him and it was nice. He was really considerate to my feelings and made me feel safe. And he’s a good kisser”. Kinda basic but not extremely haughty sounding yk?

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Anonymous #7 2w

men compare dick sizes as a joke, we’re not telling our friends yea the misses really sucked me good today. and to those that do are weird too cause why tf are you airing your sex life like that. telling someone else about it w/o confirming if the other person would be cool with it is weird

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Anonymous #10 2w

And you shouldn’t be comparing dick size either if you think about it that way then bc that’s also weird and you don’t need to openly talk about other ppl’s genitals

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Anonymous #10 2w

That’s explaining it in a weird way. Simply saying “I enjoyed my night with him” isn’t as bad nor the same as saying “she sucked me good”. I guess some men think you need to explain things in extreme detail all the time for it to count and you really don’t need to. Not everything is that deep of a conversation

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Anonymous #7 2w

the last time i heard anyone of my friends comparing dick sizes was back in grade school no one does that anymore. and when we did it was a joke saying my shit is like 13 plus knowing damn well we were lying

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Anonymous #7 2w

i see no problem with saying that but we don’t know how the girl told her friend it could’ve been in detail

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Anonymous #10 2w

Women rarely do that. So if OP didn’t ask it’s likely not even that deep and he’s overreacting the issue. That’s why it’s best to talk to them first. And he didn’t set that boundary to begin with

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Anonymous #7 2w

saying he’s overreacting because he’s felt his privacy was invaded is insane. just bc women rarely do that doesn’t mean they don’t either. the boundary should’ve naturally been set considering the situation

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