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Am I chopped if a girl looks disappointed when I strike up a conversation with her at the bar? It’s pretty consistent in occurrence
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Anonymous 50w

Not necessarily, she could just be wanting a night out alone or with friends and is disappointed that someone’s trying to hit on her

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Anonymous 50w

Maybe not chopped necessarily but also maybe not what they’re into. You may have a type in women, and maybe you’re not your type’s type

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 50w

They seem fine when I see other guys do it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 50w

You sit around and watch the women who reject you for the rest of the night?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 50w

Only if they’re in my field of vision from where I’m sitting

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 50w

But I’m usually just drinking and scrolling on my phone

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 50w

Sounds like you just haven’t had any luck yet and that’s ok

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 50w

True, lowkey don’t try anymore though

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 50w

There’s always dating apps and meeting people through mutual friends

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 50w

I went dating apps with no likes and 3 people who matched them unmatched or ghosted in a 5 month period and I feel meeting people through mutual friends will yield the same results as the bar

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 50w

You never know what could happen I met my first bf through friends, met my recent fwb through friends

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 50w

Lucky, lowkey don’t feel like trying anymore after my streak of luck. I wish I could not look how I look

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 50w

Your choice

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 50w

It’s lowkey defeating seeing someone look disappointed by your presence

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 49w

I approach almost anyone, I don’t really have a type

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