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(M40) So…. I love to go down on my wife, like absolutely love it, however we have been married 20 years and she has never reciprocated and gets frustrated any time I bring up my desire to know if she will ever be willing, she says maybe but most womendont
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Anonymous 2w

Does she express that she doesn’t like it or just that she only expects you to take care of her? Have you tried seeing if she’ll come in the middle for a HJ instead?

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Anonymous 2w

Ok so ngl this is the same w me and my bf. I personally cannot give him a BJ because I don’t like the taste and I am someone who gets super nauseous easily and feel like imma throw up when I do it.

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Anonymous replying to -> wing_leader 2w

She will do hj every now and again, but prefers me inside. She thinks it’s strange that I like to go down on her, but will accept it.

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Anonymous replying to -> wing_leader 2w

She’s never given one so can’t say whether she likes it or not, but doesn’t want to try

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Well that seems like a boundary she has set then. If she doesn’t want to, she doesn’t have to

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Has she asked you what you wanted and like #2 said. Has she claimed it as a boundary?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

She finally said last time I asked that if she wants to she will but would like me to stop asking so I have, more just trying to understand if most women really don’t want to or won’t or if I’m crazy for wanting it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

It depends on the person. I don’t think you’re crazy for wanting it, but you are pushing her to do something it seems like she doesn’t want to

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

I realized that too late, realized my expectations of what I want and what she has to give are my issue and not hers so I’m trying to let it go

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