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Do ladies want to be approached in the gym? I want to talk to this girl but i don’t wanna be rude when she is trying to lock in ya know?
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Anonymous 1w

if it’s that serious, try to catch her on her way in or out, not during her literal workout.

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Anonymous 1w

No, generally don approach women with headphones/earbuds who are busy

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Anonymous 1w

I think generally we don’t rlly wanna be approached at least during workouts bc it can already be kinda off-putting thinking that people are looking at you but also you’re trying to kinda focus on yourself during that time

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Anonymous 1w

Never do it in the gym, let women have own lives. Bar or club is okay because that’s where you go to talk

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Anonymous 1w

I would say don’t talk to her. At most I would say: introduce yourself. And may be give her a card that says: i think you’re cute. This is my number:xxx-xxx-xxxx

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Anonymous 1w

in my experience it's okay if you've seen the person for multiple weeks and she's acknowledged you or given signs of her own that she wants to talk. if it's a new/unknown person who has headphones on and you would be interrupting her workout to start an awkward conversation then no not really

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Not even between sets? Sorry, i am really coping here…

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Ohh yes, I will try to do that! Thank you, both of you, i appreciate the advice!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I would advice against approaching someone who’s listening to music, that’s typically the universal signal for “I don’t want to be talked to”

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Do not go anywhere expecting to talk to women and definitely do not go anywhere with the INTENT of talking to women. Let things happen naturally

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