Ask Women on Sidechat | Ok so I’m a guy and have never really had hookup type relationships till now. What’s the word on disclosing std’s and such? I’ve been tested recently and I’m clean but should I ask her? Is it assumed that she’d say something if she had something?

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Ask Women 13h

Ok so I’m a guy and have never really had hookup type relationships till now. What’s the word on disclosing std’s and such? I’ve been tested recently and I’m clean but should I ask her? Is it assumed that she’d say something if she had something?

Anonymous 13h

i personally would just ask! It’s always a risk unfortunately💔

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Anonymous 12h

always a good idea to ask about their testing history. it may not be a sexy conversation but it’ll save ya from being burned

Anonymous 13h

Ask her and listen to her, use protection and be transparent and honest with her. I hope u have fun!

Anonymous 9h

It’s not a sexy conversation but it’s the responsible thing to do, I usually just say “Hey sorry if this is awkward or whatever but I last got tested on [whatever date] and I’m clean, when was your last test?” or something like that

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Anonymous 10h

Ask and use protection. You could also try having a test exchange, you show yours she shows hers, of course there’s the chance that she had ai make it and never got tested but that’s the risk. Protect yourself. All you can do.

Anonymous

#2 13h

Ahh! Conflicting advice lmao. You don’t think it’d be a turnoff to ask? Idk how id bring it up without sounding accusatory but I’m just tryna be safe

Anonymous

OP 13h

And yes I always use protection 🙏

Anonymous

OP 13h

personally I don’t think it’s accusatory it’s just necessary for both of you! And she’ll be grateful for your clean bill of health too💖

Anonymous

OP 13h

If it’s a turnoff for her, that kinda of a red flag imo

Anonymous

#1 12h

Yk that’s fair, I’ll get over myself and just ask lmao. I appreciate the advice yall 🙏