
incel specifically means not getting laid. the word is "involuntarily celibate." you could get more specific and say it's a guy in that situation who is hateful about it, because a guy who isn't getting laid but doesn't care would never identify as an incel or be part of that community.
The word has gone past what it was originally used for. So now I use the term incel to refer to any man who has become jaded with women over dating experience and believe they are owed something. Someone who believes common decency is enough to have sex. Someone who talks down to women and doesn’t see us as people, but objects of attraction. That’s incels.
I don’t think I express any toxic feminism. I talk about how men have been conditioned to not share their emotions, I talk about my experiences and I try and have open conversations while using research to back up any point I make. I’ve never shamed another woman for anything and my male friends and men on here have frequently expressed their issues to me and that I am one of the few people who listen to their problems. I don’t really need to prove to anyone who I am.