
I actually js talked abt this w someone the other day…they mentioned that women have higher standards than men, and most women find a lot of men deemed unattractive while most men find women attractive. So there isn’t a big outlet for men to find a woman. Women look for more than js looks, they look for money/ status, personality, do they have goals, a career/ they’re shit tg, etc. Most men want an attractive woman who fits standards of comfort and softness (things most women naturally have)
Because a lot of men feel lonely and unwanted since there is just low demand for most men. It’s a perspective that’s very hard for women to understand since the grand majority have inherent value (even if it’s not what they want) but most men have almost nothing valuable to provide to a woman when it comes to dating; therefore, face plenty of rejection, and becomes a game of you either get plenty or nothing. Especially when the average man does not meet…
Men used to hunt until we realized we didn’t have to, any guy whos had women approach him knows. he doesn’t need to put in effort and it shows. So for those who do chase and it goes nowhere they grow resentment and give up over time. Naturallt its survival of the fittest not everyone has great stats lmao