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Ask Women 23h
Hi girlys I need some uplifting messages. I cried after my shift today cuz my sup got married and she is a year older than me. I haven’t really dated and I’m still a virgin. I’m really struggling with being ok I’m single I’m losing hope in happiness
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Anonymous 22h

girl i’m also 19 and chronically single, i feel you… but i also don’t think this is worse than the people who’ve got a new bf every three months. we find people eventually!

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Anonymous 22h

#19? If you’re only 19 you’re fine, you got lots of time

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Anonymous 22h

Girl you got this! This is the time and age you should focus on yourself, do things for you! Don’t let ur sup get in the way of your life

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Anonymous 16h

Girl I’m 21 and had to break up with my boyfriend of 3 months because he wouldn’t communicate. I promise you aren’t behind. She’s just going fast.

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Anonymous 22h

I lost my virginity at 20 or 21 lol i can’t remember. Girl you’re going to be okay I promise

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Anonymous 22h

Sup?👀

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Anonymous 3h

You’re a woman it’s your choice whether you want a relationship or to be a virgin lmao

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Anonymous 16h

She’s going to be divorced soon lol

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Anonymous 22h

If you’re struggling now, you will never survive

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

Supervisor 😅

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 22h

It’s my supervisor not a dynamic. But I did focus on myself all of high school and now I feel like I missed out on dating and being a teen

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

Ok I thought so but didn’t know fs😭, also you are not alone

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 22h

Incredibly wrong

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 21h

I know more than you in terms of life but whatever you say. Don’t want to hurt your ego.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 21h

Having a crisis at 19 is really sad. Pathetic even. And that’s just me being brutally honest. Take care little boy.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 21h

Little boy? Bro this is Ask Women, what are you on? You can’t possibly say you know more than me considering you don’t know me or what I know. I struggled to date for years before I found my fiancée. Hope is never lost, I know people that fell in love at 64

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 19h

Your making all these assumptions about me and the other commenters and you need to back off. I’m not having a crisis but a bad day. Needing support is a healthy positive thing especially to prevent breakdowns. I have a very difficult life and it reminds me to continue towards my goals but sometimes I’m just a 19 year old girl that cries over love

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3h

Isn’t that what early womanhood is? I agree with #5 what you on

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