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Advice on approaching someone at the bar?
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Anonymous 12w

moonwalk away

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Anonymous 12w

I lead with a compliment and gauge their response for if they want to keep talking (if they seem interested ask a question and just kinda keep feeling out if they want to be in the conversation)

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

What kind of compliment?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Honestly I usually come up with them kinda on the spot just look at them and say whatever catches your eyes say “I like your …” (glasses, dress, shoes, etc)

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

It’s an easy way to start a conversation but be genuine about it and sometimes it’ll lead to a longer conversation and sometimes it’ll end with just that

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