Anonymous wing_leader 5w

What if you’re not a super attractive person and gotta land a better first impression quicker?

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Anonymous OP 5w

Hm, well I if you’re not feeling as confident with your appearance. I’d stick with a small introduction and if a person is coming off polite (like they answer you but don’t seem interested in continue talking). Good cues to look for is if they just look at their phone after talking to you, look at the TV or give short answers. Cues and body language are very important when trying to talk to someone. Keep it simple, don’t pick compliments that don’t keep an open conversation such as

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Anonymous wing_leader 5w

“You’re beautiful”. Say something about they are wearing “The color of your shirt really compliments your eyes” and then pull the conversation into “ Is this your scene typically?” Referring to the bar. Now this is just an example, anytime you’re talking to anyone: Body Language and Tone of Voice are cues.

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Anonymous #3 5w

What kind of compliment?

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Anonymous OP 5w

Honestly I usually come up with them kinda on the spot just look at them and say whatever catches your eyes say “I like your …” (glasses, dress, shoes, etc)

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Anonymous #3 5w

It’s an easy way to start a conversation but be genuine about it and sometimes it’ll lead to a longer conversation and sometimes it’ll end with just that

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