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this girl definitely had a huge crush on me and i started to catch feelings too. a month or so after i was going to confess to her but learned that she started dating someone else. Was i led on or did i wait too long
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Anonymous 3w

maybe waited too long? hard to know without knowing her personally

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Anonymous 3w

How r u sure she had a crush?

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Anonymous 3w

Next time, whenever you see that many signs, just ask her out my dude. Dont wait, you are wasting your time. Even better strategy, be very flirty and things will naturally lead from there. Though this makes me wonder if you were indeed being flirting and she still did that, in which case I take back my previous comment and you were 100% being led on 😂

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Anonymous 3w

She didnt like u bro get gains chud

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

took interest in whatever i was talking about/doing no matter how random it was, checking me out not even really trying to be discreet about it, laughed at anything i laughed at even if it was really dumb or an inside joke, quite red in the face etc etc. even then i knew what was up but in hindsight its just clear as day at least to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

fair enough. Im not sure how much im comfortable disclosing here but she didnt seem like the type to just move on like that esp from feelings that strong

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Meh, this doesn’t necessarily mean she had a crush on you. One of my friends, girl, is the type to be super nice to people to the extent that a lot of guys think she’s into them when she’s just being nice. Anyway, doesn’t really matter because if she’s with someone else, just move on at this point.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

thanks for the insight. Yeah ive gotten over it, im mostly just asking because ill admit im not always the best at reading peoples intentions😅

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

and im trying to improve in that regard

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Bruh dont let these women gaslight you 😂 I admit, I also had my fair share of ‘does she like me or is she not that interested’ experiences, but none of them were this straight forward. You one million percent waited too long my dude. Most girls are not going to waste their time and lead you on unless they truly have something to gain off of you, and even whenever they do, they are not going to show you that many signs.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

prob not flirty enough, to be clear i didnt feel the same initially. And yeah ive definitely learned from this

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