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Um found out my bf used to keep a pair of panties from every girl he fucked? I should break up with him right? That’s crazy
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Anonymous 3w

That’s creepy as hell and potentially theft if they didn’t know about it so yes 😀

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Anonymous 3w

Yesh

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Anonymous 3w

yep!

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Anonymous 3w

Wait even after he and each ex would break up? Did he still have his “collection” when he was with you?

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Anonymous 3w

Okay I’m gonna do it, unfortunately he’s super hot lol so it’s gonna be hard

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Anonymous 3w

Did u know if they were on board? If its consensual i dont really see the deal

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Anonymous 2w

Uh, does that mean you’re next?

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Anonymous 3w

😂😂

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

He’s gone ladies!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

👏

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

it's definitely still creepy if it was consensual

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Could u help me understand why it is creepy if both parties are chill with it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Theft? weird as all hell. It must be like a trophy or shrine things. Likely indicates a conscious or subconscious objectification of women

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

having a collection of women's underwear as like, trophies? shows that he has a very unhealthy view of sex as a conquest or triumph or something. also what are the chances it's consensual, and even if an individual woman said he could have a pair of her panties, what are the chances she knew it was going in some collection he had? also if he's in a committed relationship... why would he want reminders of all the other girls

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I didnt consider the trophies thing i dont really know much ab hetero dynamics. In my circles its not weird to have some sort of sentimental token from a past lover and personally i wouldnt feel weird if that was a thing for a girl i was dating its just not for me

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

Sentimental tokens =/= drawer of panties. Heterodynamics have not reached that level of hell yet

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

Level of hell?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

if it was like – he had a collection of ticket stubs from movies they went to together, or post cards, or anything like that, it would be a completely different story imo. that would be perfectly fine, sweet even. but the fact that it's underwear says a LOT.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Wonderful! Bye bye

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