Anonymous OP 2w

She then said she is going to ask other people to remove her from their posts because she suddenly doesn't like theirs as well

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Anonymous OP 2w

I guess I'm mostly bothered by the fact that she didn't ask and just demanded it

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Anonymous #2 2w

Yea like i said in my comment I did take it down, my concern now is if I should just not post her all together, this is like the third time despite her giving me the photo to post😭

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Anonymous #1 2w

She got really upset when I did and kept demanding I take it down immediately

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Anonymous #1 2w

She kinda has a bad habit of looking through my page a few times a week

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Anonymous OP 2w

I mean, it’s her face, I’d take it down if I was you. But I’m still curious why. Idk I’m most likely autistic, and I don’t understand why neurotypical people get mad sometimes when you ask them questions. There’s a lot of subtleties in conversation that I see no point in, I like to simply exchange information. I don’t understand what it’s like to be any other way.

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Anonymous #1 2w

I’m autistic (dx’d at age 3) and just learned to not ask questions a lot. Most people with autism have this innate need to know things and want to understand and NTs tend to be bothered by it. The best thing to do is just learn to accept and move on, because people don’t need to explain themselves and it falls on us to accept an answer regardless 👍

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Anonymous #2 2w

I asked because this wasn't a one time thing, it happened 3 times now where she kinda wakes up and sees a post of us and decides she just hates it and demands me to take it down, think im just gonna stop posting her all together 😭 I was just trying to understand her perspective bc I know she's gonna trip about her not being on my page. I also thought the problem would be solved if she picked the pictures which she did

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Anonymous OP 2w

Body dysmorphia?

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Anonymous #1 2w

Maybe? But I don't know if im comfortable with her making this everyone else's issue, i think its excessive to tell everyone to suddenly remove her from their social bc today she doesn't like her face

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Anonymous OP 2w

But then get offended when they're not posted...

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Anonymous OP 2w

Definitely insecurity. Maybe narcissism or another type of cluster B personality, but I’d need more info

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Anonymous OP 2w

in the future i’d say just to not post her. it is YOUR page and you should be able to post or not post whatever you want (within reason). i know you said she gets mad at being asked questions, but id recommend you get clarification anyway as to not potentially make her upset by you not understanding something she’s not willing to communicate at first

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Anonymous #3 2w

i had a friend like this, and it turned into a toxic cycle of them changing their mind and getting mad at me for whatever was approved to be posted (i took the photos down). i stopped posting them altogether and they also got mad at that. it eventually turned into them gradually resenting me and we stopped being friends. best decision ever it felt like walking on eggshells whenever we were together

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Anonymous #3 2w

That’s most likely NPD

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Anonymous #1 2w

NPD does not present like this. You are waaaay off base. It occurs in very may forms but simply changing one’s mind frequently and having mood swings about it is not a sign of NPD.

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