
On the positive side he’ll either learn to forgive you or end up having to forgive to forgive himself. If that’s the case he might still love you? I’m a dude who probably got cheated on, but I also knew there were issues going into things, had some trouble half way through, argued against the fact that I was insecure for the remainder, and realized I probably was in the absence of her love.
Reached out a couple times but the last time was right before I ended up in the psych ward for a week so even though she asked for chocolates and flowers, I fucked things up and then blocked her. Probably never going to check again, but I don’t think I’ve stopped loving her. I’m realizing this probably doesn’t help, but hey, at least it’s not as fucked up as whatever the hell I’ve got going on.