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Ask Women 18h
If your home girl is cheating on her bf are you telling the bf or nah
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Anonymous 17h

i’m not telling him but i’m having a serious conversation w/ her to encourage her to tell him herself

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Anonymous 14h

I’ll give her a period of grace and some time to let her convince me. It is unlikely I will be convinced, in which then I will tell him as

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Anonymous 12h

why is everyone assuming the bf treats her well? it's almost never the case and i'd have no loyalty to him

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11h

Funny you say this cus I was the bf in question and by no means was I perfect but I didn’t do anything to warrant her cheating on me besides having a massive depressive episode And further more if you are unsatisfied you can just leave the relationship It doesn’t give you justification to cheat

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

never said i'd encourage it but it rlly wouldn't involve me and that's my homegirl. why would i go out of my way to make her life more difficult? also most relationships benefit men far more than women even if the girl cheats. don't have an issue w women in male fields esp if it can benefit them

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3h

Wow defending and protecting cheaters? LOL you sound like a cheater urself If you want to act like this then dont act shocked and upset when men defend cheaters and dont tell her. You are weiiiiiird

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 49m

yes bc that is exactly how women find out they're being cheated on, by their bf's friends

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