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Is it off putting to a partner if I’m not a virgin? I wanted to save myself for marriage my whole life, and was pressured into it with my then fiancé. We’ve parted ways and I feel so dirty and guilty.
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Anonymous 4w

They would have to be a pretty hardcore religious fundamentalist to care about that tbh. Almost nobody saves themselves for marriage nowadays. My fiancé and I are religious but aren’t each other’s first, it literally doesn’t matter bc we’re both clean and loyal

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Anonymous 4w

Unless they’re mad religious or some sort of incel then no

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Anonymous 4w

I guess I should state that I’m a guy. Got some dms thinking otherwise.

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Anonymous 4w

as a virgin till marriage i personally wouldn’t date someone like that, but there’s no shortage at all of girls who aren’t virgins so it should be pretty easy for you to find one !

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Anonymous replying to -> twirling_tornado 4w

case in point from all the non-virgin girls in the rest of the comments

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Anonymous replying to -> twirling_tornado 4w

yeah exactly, to each their own. the person you end up marrying is going to love the fact that you waited and I’m happy for you for that. for me it wasn’t as big a deal and wasn’t hard to find someone who was on the same page. all is well as long as you end up w/ who doesn’t pressure you for things you haven’t done, or shame you for things you have already done

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