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Ppl who’ve been SAed are usually already second guessing/blaming themselves for it. They don’t need you to tell them what they should’ve done differently. They know. They’re traumatized, their behavior forever changed for fear of it happening again.
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Anonymous 3w

lol the POLICE dismissed me bc i didn’t have “physical evidence”, but i had multiple eye witnesses… anyways all is good bc he ended up killing himself 😁

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Anonymous 3w

Not a girl but this is so true I’ve been saed and like it’s really changed me so much like on top of what you said anything with intimacy or sex just makes me feel awful and confused like I even if it’s with someone I trust I always feel on edge and confused then after for some days i feel horrible mentally and physically until it passes

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Anonymous 3w

I did for the longest and I wasn’t believed after awhile

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Anonymous 2w

For years… i blamed myself for getting drunk with my friend at his house after I broke up with my first boyfriend for netflix and drinks. He kissed me, i responded… but then I told him no, i don’t want to continue. Then I woke up to him SAing me. For years, i said I was stupid. Then i realize I should be blaming the dude for being a rapist

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

i throw up during intimacy bc i’m so stressed 😔💔

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