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Do y'all fr not cum with most guys?
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Anonymous 12w

I’ve only ever been with my ex and the gap was fucking astounding. Dude would not listen to my direction and then get sad I didn’t cum. Bro I have the manual and you’re not listening, lock in

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Anonymous 12w

i’m in the minority of women who can cum from penetration alone so usually i can finish as long as the guy is not just jackhammering and actually somewhat gafs

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Anonymous 12w

Not really but I feel like I’ve always had to concentrate really hard to get there. Plus birth control really killed my drive

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Anonymous 12w

I’ve only been with one so far and I had to do it for myself

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Anonymous 12w

It’s not ab us it’s about the lack of effort a man is putting into it, it’s truly not difficult.

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Anonymous 12w

it’s bout 50/50

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Anonymous 12w

not from penetration

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Anonymous 12w

50/50 but I usually do when I’m attracted to them

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

what's the difference?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

you mean the difference between guys who can make me finish and the guys who don’t ? just skill difference in giving head ig.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

this exactly for me as well

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

is there no foreplay, or is it just bad foreplay/bad sex in general?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

In my case, I think it was more of a personal mindset thing I liked the foreplay and the sex, but maybe I just need to feel in control of my body to actually reach that point.. idk tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

so would you say it's issues from outside the bedroom affecting it? or more of a lack of connection in the moment?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

I think it’s just how I am idk. Nothing to do with not enjoying the sex

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

i misunderstood, i’ve been with a few people and i’ve never came from them before ever. i think im generally anxious and i need to focus and i need them to care and usually it’s a mix of both not happening. i had a bf for 4 years and he never really cared to try very hard with me so i just didn’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

same, and i had to like train myself to get there😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 12w

bro i just started bc and im so scared its gonna fuck with my sex drive

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