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How do i explain to my girlfriend that I really dislike getting gifts(for my birthday). Like anything I want I have already bought for myself. I would rather her plan an event instead but she insists on getting me a present. Am i just being difficult?
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Anonymous 10w

okay scratch what #2 said, just flat out tell her, don’t buy me anything and just plan a date for us because all i want for my birthday is some quality time with you

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Anonymous 10w

Just flat out tell her I want you to plan things instead of gifts. I don’t want gifts please listen and understand.

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Anonymous 10w

Maybe rephrase it as the best gift she can give you is a vacation or something

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Anonymous 10w

Fuck no I’m the same. I don’t want nothing from no one. Just her to have freaky sex with me. That’s all I want.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

And no I don’t think you’re being difficult, everyone celebrates their birthday differently and there’s no wrong way to go about it as long as you’re happy with it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

ew

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

wtf

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

wtf. Hold old are you for saying “ew”.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

how old are you to be saying "freaky sex" lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

Dick. How do you think they were going to get freaky. Just come over fuck and she leaves. You guys must not have a thought process. Duh. Go out for dinner or whatever he wants and then he gets to un wrap her. Just put a dam bow on her ass. If you guys can’t figure that out then your not age. Grow up some more. He’s going to tell her what he wants not what I want. Weirdo

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

nah not necessarily, like i’m not saying that can’t happen but if i had a gf i just want to be able to see her, you can literally fuck whenever but to be able to see and hold her like sometimes i jus wanna cuddle and watch a movie and fall asleep, i dont get why thats so hard to grasp

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 10w

Coming from a girl if my boyfriend was to say that I would understand and I wouldn’t get any gifts

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