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How do I tell my GF I am worried about her weight gain?
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Anonymous 6d

By expressing genuine concern if the weight gain is becoming medically an issue or she’s getting an ED. If she’s still healthy and she’s just gaining a few pounds every now and then I don’t see how that’s a problem

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Anonymous 6d

i fear no matter how it’s brought up she will be upset about it, so i would just try to hint little things like eating healthy and the gym

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Anonymous 6d

First ask if shes ok. Maybe something’s wrong or it’s stress

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

Hopefully you already discussed boundaries around appearance and weight gain. If not, now might be a good time to have an honest talk about what you both are ok with. If her level of weight gain is a deal breaker for you, it’s better that she knows. If your concern about her weight is a deal breaker for her, it’s better that she knows. Better to communicate what you want now than divorce over it 15 years later.

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