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Ask Women 18h
How would y’all feel if you found out your bf used to sell his nudes for $? (Not while in the relationship)
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Anonymous 18h

Did he tell me or did I find out? Because those are very different reactions

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Anonymous 7h

My mans so hot he went pro? Hell yah

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

He told you about a month in. But I’m curious what your reaction would be for either

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

I find out not from him? Break up. To not tell me feels disingenuous and I don’t like when people hide things from me in a relationship. He tells me? I check in and make sure that he consented to it and didn’t do something he didn’t want to. I honestly don’t care if his nudes are in someone else’s hands I care that he’s okay

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

Appreciate the response. For context it was consensual and it was just to make some extra money for rent and bills. Not something I like to bring up or super proud of but not super ashamed. but I do feel like we are getting serious and thought she should know

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Gotcha. I’m not going to shame my partner for doing that. Ngl I thought about selling feet pics because tuition was rough. It’s your body and you control what you do with it. I would tell her though

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8h

You find out from someone else and consequently break up a whole relationship because of this single fact? You are a fucking child, lol.

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