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Ask Women 20w
Hi ladies, I’m politely asking out of pure curiosity, not horniness I swear. What’s the most respectful way possible for a guy to express that he only wants to hookup, no strings attached?
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Anonymous 20w

To just put it out there like you just did in the open as soon as possible

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Anonymous 20w

My summer fling said “summer fling” and explained what that was because I didn’t know. I like that approach, it’s straightforward. Say what you want, state the rules.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

I’m not interested in hookups but I’ve had guys ask for that in some weird ways and I rather people just be straight up about it and not make it some beating around the bush or make it into some line or something personally

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

how would you want it said to you?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

Literally just “I’m personally just looking for hookups, no strings attached. What are you looking for?” I say I’m not looking for that “oh ok, well it was nice to meet you and you’re beautiful. Have a good one!” Or on apps I just like when it’s in the description or like how hinge has a specific section for it. Something like that. But I don’t think you’ll get the same answer from everyone idk. I just like people to say what they wanna say without trying any kinda unnatural swaveness/mind games

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

I got you, so it’s more just being straight up. Thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

Oh and one more thing I just thought of. I hate how often I’m asked for “looking for something casual, netflix and chill, hang out and watch a movie” If you wanna hookup and have a one night thing don’t try to disguise it as something else, there are too many girls who will actually think your idea of a first date is hanging out and watching a movie and something casual is still reoccurring and that can lead to people having different intentions, it’s more like friends w benefits/situationships

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

I was one of those girls when I was 18-19

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

Got you, thanks for the advice, really appreciate it

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