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Genuinely how do I tell if tall guys are into me because they actually like me or if it’s because it’s some sort of kink because of the huge height difference (I’m 4’10)
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Anonymous 1d

Biggest thing is to ask what do they like about your height. And pay attention to the answers and their tone. I can see how it can be infantilizing (I’m 4’10) so I’ve been in those shoes where it seems like ppl just fetishize the height. Weird comments like “I love a fun sized girl” “midgets are hot”, give me the ick

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Anonymous 1d

Ask. That seems like the only way to know for sure

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Anonymous 1d

OP is one of the rare people to realize this height thing is a fetish for both men and women

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Anonymous 1d

I’m 5’2 and have gotten comments like ‘could you even take it’ bc of that. I don’t have any great advice tbh. I feel like it mostly comes out when things are starting to get sexual and they lose their filter and start taking risks 🫠 So yeah, if you finn method lmk. Or idk just straight up ask if they like short girls? They might assume it’s an insecurity and start reassuring you that they do tho

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Anonymous 1d

U have to be at least 5’8 to have 6ft rule

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Anonymous 1d

U can’t just date people who are within 8 inches of your height

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Why?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

So tall girls have people date

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I’m not the one who chases after them height dosent really matter to me but if a tall guy wanted to date a tall girl he would

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

They can lie tho 💔

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

That’s fair. I hope that if they have bad intentions it would be easy to notice but other than that I really can’t think of anything. Sorry girl. I’m 5’1 and I have this problem too

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

My bf is 5’9 so he’s not that much taller than me. Maybe like a full foot difference at times. He just teases me about it when we go for drives but he’s never made me feel less than for how tall I am

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Being a taller woman doesn’t make your request of a top 5th percentile man any more reasonable

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