Ask Women on Sidechat | Why do women think men don’t respect women they don’t find attractive? In my opinion men do respect them, they just don’t bend over backwards to give them princess treatment like many men do for women they do find attractive.

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Why do women think men don’t respect women they don’t find attractive? In my opinion men do respect them, they just don’t bend over backwards to give them princess treatment like many men do for women they do find attractive.

Anonymous 2d

Well I’m not asking for princess treatment regardless if you find me attractive or not but the least you can do is not be an asshole towards ppl you don’t like romantically whether you know them or not

Anonymous 2d

Because a lot of people, men and women, treat people they find unattractive rly poorly. I’ve seen a lot of guys go out of their way to be shitty to women they don’t like the looks of.

Anonymous 2d

Unfortunately it’s cuz they don’t respect women. For every man out there who is respectful, there’s tens of others who are just straight jerks.

Anonymous 2d

I remember being in middle and high school and whenever I got assigned to a group with the more conventionally attractive guys they’d just ignore my presence or talk to me as little as possible. Obviously this was a while ago and we were all more immature then, but I think a similar theme as held, just less blatant. I don’t take it personally but it does (to me) indicate a certain pattern

Anonymous 2d

Because most if not all women have experienced that

Anonymous 2d

You shouldn't ignore people you don't find attractive

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Anonymous 1d

Because I experienced it?

Anonymous 2d

Do you have a personal scenario of this?

Anonymous 1d

(1) walking around, getting catcalled (disrespect toward those they find attractive) (2) listening to men in my life disrespect women they find unattractive (3) the internet (4) listening to men in my life judge random women for their clothing, even stuff like crop tops. (5) the scientifically tested effects of pretty privilege in the workplace

Anonymous 2d

Are you a woman?

Anonymous

#4 2d

As a conventionally attractive guy, I try to talk less to women I don’t find attractive to not give them the wrong idea that I may be in to them. I try to be polite but very limited/professional basically. Maybe I’m being a bit presumptuous but whenever I do try just being more normally open, ppl end up taking it as a sign of interest and it becomes a whole thing I’d rather just avoid. I don’t think I’m being mean, just more closed off ig, idk what else to do

Anonymous

#9 2d

Dw man, it’s not professionalism that bothers me, it’s when I ask a question or make a suggestion and get completely ignored until someone else says the same thing at the same volume and gets a response. Your reaction makes sense and I wouldn’t interpret it as rudeness

Anonymous

#3 1d

Those are man child’s

Anonymous

#12 1d

For (2), these were often men with partners btw. They had no reason to care

Anonymous

#12 1d

Also a study found over half of men guilty of SA. They self reported it anonymously

Anonymous

#12 1d

Generally 4-16% of college men admit to rape

Anonymous

#12 1d

They don’t respect us. And my guess is, if you’re a guy, you’ve witnessed the disrespect but never realized it. It helps to flip the script in your imagination. When your bros are talking about a woman, imagine she’s you and your bros are women. Is that scenario realistic? How do you feel about it?