Ask Women on Sidechat | Since my last period, ive had sex with 2 different men. One of them was a one night stand inwhich i dont talk to anymore and the other is a man that I want to get serious with now. My period is 12 days late and im worried im pregnant. what to do? (im 19)

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Since my last period, ive had sex with 2 different men. One of them was a one night stand inwhich i dont talk to anymore and the other is a man that I want to get serious with now. My period is 12 days late and im worried im pregnant. what to do? (im 19)

Anonymous 1d

Pregnancy test first. Don’t spiral just yet!!

Anonymous 1d

Pregnancy tests first fs! If you are actually pregnant, make sure you let both of them know that they could be the father but there is another man involved. DNA test ASAP after that if they want to. Good luck!

Anonymous 14h

Step 1: pregnancy test Step 2: Do you want to have a kid rn? I got pregnant from pre-ejaculate and waited like two months to get a chemical abortion and it was perhaps the worst night of my life. So painful. I’d recommend getting the surgical abortion if you’re beyond one month. Best of luck!

Anonymous 1d

furthermore. I would not know who the father is if i am. I try to be careful and use condoms however the man I had a one night stand with broke during intercourse day 1 of ovulation. the other man I had sex with 5 days after and only used condoms the first 2 days, since, we use the pull out method. I am seriously puzzled I need advice!

Anonymous

OP 1d

So firstly, ovulation only occurs during 1 day in your cycle. The “fertile window” your app is showing you is 1 not accurate and even if it was, the first day of your fertile window would not necessarily mean you’re ovulating rather that sperm from that day can get you pregnant when you ovulate. If you had sex with a condom on a few days later you probably did not get pregnant from the later encounter. It definitely would have been a. Good idea to take a plan b after the first encounter.

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Anonymous

#2 1d

thank you this is good advice💗

Anonymous 1d

he never finished in me. anytime either of them finished has been in a condom

Anonymous

OP 21h

Not saying this to scare you but precum and premature ejaculate can still get you pregnant

Anonymous

#5 18h

Let us know what the results are if you’d like

Anonymous

#5 16h

"premature ejaculate" bro stop talking if you don't know what these words mean

Anonymous

#7 14h

Im planning on testing this weekend, but i am only 19 aswell I am in college. having a baby right now would ruin my life. Thank you for the advice💗 that would be the route if this test is positive

Anonymous

#6 14h

There are men with ED issues that include reaching a partial orgasm early with semen exiting their genitals yet do not realize such a thing happens, none the wiser of anyone involved. Not sure why else you’d like me to call it, but since you know everything about sexual health maybe you can make a recommendation?

Anonymous

#5 14h

yeah I'd call that fluid semen. it's not a different thing.

Anonymous

#6 9h

Ejaculate = semen, premature = early, no one’s saying it’s a different category just that it comes out early. Why are your panties so twisted? Semantics that important to you babe?

Anonymous

#5 9h

holy patronizing tone

Anonymous

#6 9h

Fuckin ironic you’re telling ME I have a patronizing tone lmfao move onnnnnnn girl damn it’s yikyak not ur life