Anonymous #6 2d

Why?

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Anonymous #4 2d

i’ve been having sex for 8 years, and have had dozens of partners. i would prefer someone with a similar history. i find in my experience, that more experienced men are more confident, more skilled and more likely to last longer.

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Anonymous #4 2d

also if it sounds like i’m a shallow btch i promise you this is not even an issue in my dating life. i have never actually turned someone down for being a virgin, the people i’m attracted to and end up with just naturally have similar sexual histories to me

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Anonymous #6 2d

Well maybe if you guys dropped that idea or stigma there would BE less virgin men. It doesn’t matter since he can lie to you about it anyways though ig

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Anonymous #4 2d

not my problem

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Anonymous #4 2d

virgins aren’t even in my dating pool/ people i interact with anyways

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Anonymous #4 2d

if you’re struggling with being a virgin my advice to you is not to lash out at women as a whole, and instead try to be more social and appealing to women.

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Anonymous #4 2d

i’m not doubting that there’s a stigma against virgin men btw. there’s a stigma against promiscuous women that affects me and who wants to date me. i just accept the fact that i won’t be for everyone and that’s okay. you’re not gonna be for everyone and that’s ok,

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Anonymous #6 2d

I’m not a virgin, I’m talking ABOUT virgins. I only try to appeal to someone if I GET something out of it. Idk why people see it as bad to want to get something out of a date or relationship

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Anonymous #4 2d

So you only act favorably so you’ll “get”something out of a relationship? Sounds a little too transactional and “nice guy-ish” but whatever floats your boat I guess

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Anonymous #3 2d

That’s not “nice guy” ish. Nice guy is sitting and complaining about how women want guys who are attractive but abusive, that’s a completely different thing than wanting something out of a relatiooksjop

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Anonymous #4 2d

“Nice guy” can also involve ONLY acting nice or “favorable” to receive something (usually some act of intimacy) in exchange, not just the complaining aspect. Though I do get the whole “wanting something out of a relationship” but under the condition of acting a certain way to “get something” (as opposed to being genuine) is disconcerting, but that’s just how I saw it I may be interpreting what you said wrong

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