
I don’t think a lot of us are walking around shirtless in front of our siblings in our houses as girls. We at least have maybe cropped shirts or bralettes on which can substitute as tops which is why it’s a bralette rather a regular bra. But him sexualizing her and her nipples is also weird to just dm ppl
Regardless of him talking about that in the dm it’s still a double standard for yall to support the girls when they do something and condemn the guys when they do it and condemn the guys when they complain and support the girls when they do. Does she not see him at the pool or beach? Either way both are weird but the double standard is ridiculous
I can see both sides of this. I don’t think a guy not wearing a shirt at home is a big deal, and no one likes feeling like their body is being policed or things they’re comfortable in at their own home is being criticized. But it’d only be a double standard if the sister wasn’t wearing a shirt at home while expecting him to. I agree she’s likely seen him shirtless before but she’s probably not wearing the equivalent of a string bikini around the house like she would at the pool either lol.
That said, if there was ever a situation where a brother told his sister to wear longer shorts or something because her short shorts were making him uncomfortable I could see people having an issue with it even if the guy asking wasn’t being hypocritical because he’s always fully covered at home and wears long pants himself. They’d say he was clearly a creep or perve for having an issue.
The funny part is (trying to give him the benefit of the doubt) I don’t think he’s trying to be sexual? Maybe he’s just describing social taboos allowed at home that aren’t in public. A lot of people aren’t comfortable randomly showing or seeing braless nips the same way people wouldn’t be randomly seeing a guy shirtless. But describing your sister’s nipples to justify why you shouldn’t have to wear a shirt at home is fucking wild 😭
There isn’t any we would have that same reaction. It’s kind of a no brainer to simply be normal and wear clothes in your house if other ppl live with you. If you live alone then who cares. But you have other ppl walking in and out of your house it’d just be common decency to wear clothes