Went out with a girl yesterday, came back to watch a movie and makeout. Had a great time and scheduled another date for tomorrow. We texted this morning, but she hasn’t responded now in 8 hours
Am I gonna get ghosted / cancelled on, or am I overthinking?
Update: she was kind enough to respond instead of ghosting, saying that I did nothing wrong, but that she isn’t over her ex. Not the ending I wanted, but definitely better than being ghosted
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Anonymous3w
Went out w a guy the other day and realized I felt nothing with him so I havent been responding as much. Could be this as well
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Anonymous#23w
Definitely possible, though she seemed to respond quickly before. Then again, could’ve taken a nap, been with friends, phone died - who knows
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Anonymous#43w
Please (as politely as possible) tell him. It doesn’t actually help anyone to just ghost or slowly disappear without communicating
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Anonymous3w
Sadly, she still hasn’t responded, despite the fact that I sent a message an hour or so ago asking if we’re still good for our date tonight. I think I’m cooked…
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Anonymous3w
Thank you. If she just told me “hey we don’t click in x way” I’d be fine. The lack of certainty makes me super insecure, but gotta keep my head up. Rejection happens. Being single is tough lol
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Anonymous3w
PS- love your name - those books were so good!
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AnonymousOP3w
But I wouldnt mind being friends with him ☹️ but i feel like if i keep talking to him hell get the wrong message