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Went out with a girl yesterday, came back to watch a movie and makeout. Had a great time and scheduled another date for tomorrow. We texted this morning, but she hasn’t responded now in 8 hours Am I gonna get ghosted / cancelled on, or am I overthinking?
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Anonymous 3w

Busy maybe

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Anonymous 3w

Update: she was kind enough to respond instead of ghosting, saying that I did nothing wrong, but that she isn’t over her ex. Not the ending I wanted, but definitely better than being ghosted

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Anonymous 3w

Went out w a guy the other day and realized I felt nothing with him so I havent been responding as much. Could be this as well

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Definitely possible, though she seemed to respond quickly before. Then again, could’ve taken a nap, been with friends, phone died - who knows

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

Please (as politely as possible) tell him. It doesn’t actually help anyone to just ghost or slowly disappear without communicating

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Anonymous 3w

Sadly, she still hasn’t responded, despite the fact that I sent a message an hour or so ago asking if we’re still good for our date tonight. I think I’m cooked…

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Anonymous 3w

Thank you. If she just told me “hey we don’t click in x way” I’d be fine. The lack of certainty makes me super insecure, but gotta keep my head up. Rejection happens. Being single is tough lol

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Anonymous 3w

PS- love your name - those books were so good!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

But I wouldnt mind being friends with him ☹️ but i feel like if i keep talking to him hell get the wrong message

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Anonymous 3w

The plot is so good, but it’s also SO HOT 🤭

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