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Any way to actually talk more to my female friends and potentially get a relationship? I try to have conversations but idk what really keeps them interested in talking to me, any suggestions?

Anonymous 1w

I lowk be typing the same paragraph out every night lowk

Anonymous 1w

(3) if it’s a person you actually really like, you can be a little subtlety more flirty but just be fucking normal bro. Genuinely don’t rush this shit and jump to making a move because if it goes wrong you could be FUCKING yourself. I’m sure you’ve BEEN hearing about the male best friend horror stories so don’t be that guy bro. She’s either into you or she’s not into you and don’t try to force her to. If she’s not then just be her friend, especially if you genuinely like her.

Anonymous 1w

Do a temp check. Sit next to them, put your arm on the back of the couch, touch them when you laugh, compliment them lightly, see what the vibe is. If you get mixed signals it’s not worth acting on immediately, if you get positive responses you can proceed w caution

Anonymous

#1 1w

Alr wtva. Dude it’s literally just about the present moment. Like right this moment as I type every individual moment. Try to do one thing that’s in your immediate control in the present moment that might be you in a better position (in anyway) manifest that shit too lowk. Manifestation works bro TRUST. The shit we fill our heads with WILL influence the way we interact with the world and especially with ppl and you’ll see the difference. Now on to the actual like interaction advice -

Anonymous

#1 1w

- the way I see it. The worst outcome is that i lose a friend out of the deal. Don’t rush this shit bro. Don’t. It either happens because it was supposed to happen or it WASNT supposed to happen. Do NOT get caught up in sunken costs. Try not to be influenced by wanting to potentially be with the person except by just being aware of it in the back of your head. They’re your friends like don’t be weird they’re just girls bro, treat them like you would any friend regardless (2)

Anonymous

#1 1w

(4) if it’s too unbearable then maybe build some space but at least you tried. Men will constantly throw shit in ur face about how fucking tactical and savvy they are and how much they can pull, but that shit is straight up just aestheticizing it all and it sadly either just works for you or it doesn’t. There’s no combination of words that’s gonna change this shit that drastically for you.

Anonymous

#1 1w

(5) At the end of the day, we’re talking about female friends, and maybe love interests, not a girl you met at the club. You gotta ask yourself the type of person you’re tryna be, and the same goes for the friends you want around you, which might cross over romantically. The goal here—if ur intentions are good—is to find your community. That’s the best method. You have the best chance of being happy and connecting with people, especially in the pursuit of a partner, when you’ve found your tribe

Anonymous

#1 1w

(6) this is not a “what should i be doing” type of thing. You got to ground yourself and do the right thing in the moment, and have zero expectations. I rly mean that. You’re going to be miserable if you make expectations. Expect nothing, pretend that nothing is promised to you. Doing the right things in the moment should be done because it’s important to you and reflects the type of person you want to be. THAT is the piece of this where the possibility of a partner begins to potentially play in

Anonymous

#1 1w

(7) you gotta be fully prepared specifically for the fact that it’s never gonna work out and ur not gonna be with her but your going to do the good thing anyways because its important to you to be that type of person. When you live your life like that, and orient your friendships with women around that. There is no losing. There is no bad outcome.

Anonymous

#1 1w

(8) If you take this and expand this farther you’ve found complete peace but at least for now, by rehearsing this you’re not only going to have MUCH better, deep, longer, more authentic friendships—women but also men—that are genuinely centered around connection but you’re also ensuring that you will find love in this world because that’s the thing you put out unconditionally.

Anonymous

#1 1w

(9) U just gotta know that this process doesn’t take long when you do the actual math but feels like an eternity, and you gotta accept that. U gotta do it for the love of the game. Present moment bro. And one day, you’ll know deep in your gut to make that leap, you’ll know it istg, and you take it and then its the best feeling into the world and its how I’ve been able to find love and discover that missing link.

Anonymous

#1 1w

(10) This method works, because it’s not a method for being a fuck boy, it’s a method for living a purpose driven, connection filled life. You won’t have to think about having friendships with women because you’ll already have them, and then one day that is not guaranteed but WILL come if ur actually patient, you will find the most amazing, soul fufilling love you could ever ask for. I do this semi-professionally now

Anonymous

#2 1w

Like red light green light lowkey. I feel like I’m most likely to want to date guys who I’m already friends with because we know each other and the tension is broken, so it’s just about subtle hints and reading responses. Or get drunk together and be bold