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Ask Women 4w

how do i stop constantly overthinking everything in my relationship and making myself spiral because of it. i'm exhausted and im sure my boyfriend is too. i don't want to push him away🙁

Anonymous 4w

My GF does this too. She works through it with her therapist to help her find the source of the spiraling and working through it. I wouldn’t solely depend on random online people to validate how you feel.

Anonymous 4w

I did this too and pushed my bf away so I’m still trying to figure that out for myself :(

Anonymous 4w

LITERALLY BRO. She’s home for break and been going out with her girl friends and for some dumb ass reason my mind starts assuming its over just bc she isn’t texting… knowing damn well I’d not be texting if I was equally busy with my own friends.

Anonymous 3w

Stand on the truth of how he feels about you. That he cares for you, he loves your quirks, and everything else. It’s okay for you both to remind each other how you feel, but remember to stand in that truth instead of letting it float away

Anonymous

#1 4w

ugh i'm so sorry my love. luckily my boyfriend is incredibly understanding and patient and you too will find someone that understands you and your brain❤️

Anonymous

#2 4w

i'm in the same situation! he's back home for thanksgiving and we're on the opposite sides of the country with a 3 hour time difference. it's hard to not think the worst, i tell myself that if im busy i wouldn't be checking my phone as much either as well as them checking in every single often is enough to show you're still on their mind. you got this❤️

Anonymous

#3 4w

lol yes i know was just looking for others experiences/tips that helped them work through it