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What do u think abt this?
8 upvotes, 8 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Ask Women. "What do u think abt this?"
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Anonymous 6w

Vindictive and a random source with 0 evidence. If that’s how those men think then maybe seek some therapy to get out of the online rejection loop

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Anonymous 6w

Random claim with no source lmao, I wouldn’t take it seriously

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Anonymous 6w

Ok? No one needs to date. I hate apps and haven’t been on a proper date in years. Go to some singles events and wish there were more social things in my pocket of suburban hell but, 🤷🏻‍♀️ I have a casual human I see every few months when I’m tired of giving myself orgasms but that’s all online is good for in my opinion, finding someone for orgasms. Relationships can only be built in person through genuine human connection & if someone stops wanting that connection that’s fine.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

What is the “online rejection loop”?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

So long as they don’t become a toxic fuck.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

def a random source with no evidence, but the idea isn’t that far fetched. with OLD being the most prominent form of dating nowadays, quitting OLD is nearly akin to quitting dating altogether. there just aren’t enough 3rd places where singles hang out anymore, it’s not as easy to meet people as it once was. sure, it’s a bit defeatist to quit over it, but it’s not unreasonable to assume that the effort just isn’t worth it for a lot of people anymore.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

That’s why I said vindictive and you need therapy. It’s not like there’s not millions of single ppl walking the earth everyday. So wdym there’s no place singles go to and hangout. You personally aren’t choosing to do it that’s not on them. Online dating is probably the least authentic place to meet anyway so relying on it is a self inflicted choice. You need to start taking care of yourself and grow up and stop letting stupid things stop you from chasing goals. You only live once

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

That life you wanted isn’t going to be here when you’re dead so get it now. It is unreasonable and defeatist and no one wants someone with a defeatist quitter attitude bc what else are you going to be a quitter about

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