
I mean I kinda get the insecurity that could lead to that and also just think people have the right to do whatever they want with their body so while I don’t think highly of the surgery it probably wouldn’t be a dealbreaker if he was a cool guy and we hit it off. That being said I think the chances of me hitting it off with the kinda guy who would get that surgery are really low
I’ve had many surgeries on my leg, so this was the only one that was done to my knees. I wasn’t able to bend my knees for like a week. I had to wear a soft cast on both legs But it’s pretty minor surgery easy recovery very little scarring Other than being short, doesn’t cause much pain. My other surgery’s are much more complicated It’s not a common surgery to have done. If I didn’t do it, it would’ve caused more problems. But in the end recovery is pretty easy.
Height surgery wouldn’t be a dealbreaker to me. A short guy wouldn’t be a dealbreaker to me. But a guy who keeps part of his past hidden is 100% a dealbreaker. This is why I said there is a low chance I’d ever hit it off with the kind of guy to get height surgery. I prioritize honesty over everything else
I guess maybe for convenience sake I would go with the taller guy since I’m rly short and there is something to be said for having someone around who can reach things. But dating a short guy was also really fun and it was nice to be face to face level. Height is just really not that much of a thing to me, I know it is for a lot of girls but I personally rly do not care
I’m not saying you getting height surgery is a terrible thing, I understand why it might be desirable to be tall. I’ve considered a boob job, bc if a guy is given a choice between same girl with big or small boobs he’s usually gonna go big. I make no judgement of body modification I just think it’s a slightly wasteful thing to do. That being said I have just NEVER encountered a guy who has talked about getting height surgery who hasn’t been unpleasant
Yeah if I’m given a choice between two guys who are the same in every way why would I not choose the one who has reach lol. You’ve never tried changing a lightbulb while short? I know from dating a tall guy it’s nice to have someone who can lift you up easily, grab stuff from top shelves, generally do the tall guy stuff. But I also know from dating a short guy it’s not a big deal either way, I only answered how I did because you said they are identical in every other way
Honestly I’m still going with small boobs. I’ve been with bigger breasted women before but they were plus size. I feel like woman with smaller boobs would be more understandable/accommodating of my body dysmorphia and insecurity since she probably has to deal with similar feelings
Bc it won’t make a difference. Whomever I bond with is who I bond with. You wanted your little gotcha moment so you can say “so it doesn’t matter how a guy is he just has to be tall”. And yeah no that’s not gonna work. Your length surgery would make me pick a tall natural guy by default without him doing anything
Comical. Women don’t have unrealistic standards you’re just annoying to the point women are sick of dating immature unconfident men so they go for the men clearly unbothered. And I truly don’t blame them. Bc I’ve never seen height as a big deal. Just tall guys are less cocky about height as a specific factor than short men. I had a guy say I wouldn’t like him bc he’s 5’8…yet I liked HIM first so I knew it wouldn’t last long