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What do women think of guys who get leg lengthening surgery? If a guy is 5’5 he will be 5’10 after 2 surgeries. Would the extra height make him more attractive?
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Anonymous 5d

it shows such an absolutely stunning lack of self confidence that it would be a complete and permanent turn off

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Anonymous 5d

I’d be less attracted after knowing he did that ngl

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Anonymous 5d

As a female, I had surgery considered leg lengthening surgery to stop my height permanently I had my growth plates fused epiphysiodesis surgery I was never able to get any taller I’m 4’8

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Anonymous 5d

I mean I kinda get the insecurity that could lead to that and also just think people have the right to do whatever they want with their body so while I don’t think highly of the surgery it probably wouldn’t be a dealbreaker if he was a cool guy and we hit it off. That being said I think the chances of me hitting it off with the kinda guy who would get that surgery are really low

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Anonymous 5d

Utterly pathetic and a turn off

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

Plus if he’s only lengthening his legs his arms are gonna look short as hell in comparison lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

Not necessarily I’ve seen before and after pictures and some short guys have disproportionately long arms

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

So then would you find a guy who was 5’5 more attractive than a guy who was naturally 5’10?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Ok I’d rather date him than the guy who broke his legs twice just to be taller

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

So you’d rather date a 5’5 guy than a naturally 6’0 guy?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Yeah I prefer shorter guys anyway

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

Here’s your crown queen 👑

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

Why is that?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

It shows lack of confidence and you having personal superficial beliefs

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

Understandable but at the same time isn’t it also superficial when a majority of women say they won’t date a short man?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

No that’s their own preference

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

Exactly - if a majority of women have a height preference, a surgery that makes a man meet those preferences isn’t a bad thing but is rather logical

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

It’s actually not

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

It makes you a loser that does things for attention actually

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

So then what are short guys supposed to do?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Uh embrace the height they have? And just be short? That’s what intended

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

How would you know if the guy had the surgery tho? Once the recovery process is completed you can walk normally

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

I wouldn’t find you any more attractive if you got lengthening surgery. Actually you’d be less attractive

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

But then they are not attractive to women…

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

So you’d pick a guy who was 5’5 over a guy who was 6’2? Not for a relationship but a hookup

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5d

Thank you for sharing. What was the recovery like?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Well I would expect my partner would trust me enough to tell me but if I wouldn’t know otherwise.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

I’ve had many surgeries on my leg, so this was the only one that was done to my knees. I wasn’t able to bend my knees for like a week. I had to wear a soft cast on both legs But it’s pretty minor surgery easy recovery very little scarring Other than being short, doesn’t cause much pain. My other surgery’s are much more complicated It’s not a common surgery to have done. If I didn’t do it, it would’ve caused more problems. But in the end recovery is pretty easy.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

I don't think height is that important, but getting an expensive and incredibly painful surgery to change something cosmetic is embarrassing no matter what it is

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

I’m saving up for this surgery but judging from the responses on this thread I’ll take it to the grave once I have fully recovered

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

Which one you picking tho?👀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Height surgery wouldn’t be a dealbreaker to me. A short guy wouldn’t be a dealbreaker to me. But a guy who keeps part of his past hidden is 100% a dealbreaker. This is why I said there is a low chance I’d ever hit it off with the kind of guy to get height surgery. I prioritize honesty over everything else

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

So would you pick a guy who was the same height as you maybe like an inch shorter over a guy who was taller than 6ft? Assuming they have the same personality of course

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

I mean if it was exactly the same guy? I’m Not actually sure, height isn’t very high on my priority list. I’ve been with someone who was about 5’3 and someone who is about 6’2

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

Yes same guy just different heights if you had to pick one for a hookup and/or a relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

I guess maybe for convenience sake I would go with the taller guy since I’m rly short and there is something to be said for having someone around who can reach things. But dating a short guy was also really fun and it was nice to be face to face level. Height is just really not that much of a thing to me, I know it is for a lot of girls but I personally rly do not care

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

I’m not saying you getting height surgery is a terrible thing, I understand why it might be desirable to be tall. I’ve considered a boob job, bc if a guy is given a choice between same girl with big or small boobs he’s usually gonna go big. I make no judgement of body modification I just think it’s a slightly wasteful thing to do. That being said I have just NEVER encountered a guy who has talked about getting height surgery who hasn’t been unpleasant

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

So the odds of me getting with a guy who’s gotten the surgery are low. But again not a dealbreaker either to be short or to have the surgery, just a dealbreaker to lie

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

Bruh…no way you said someone who can reach things. Ofc you’re picking the tall guy, female nature never changes.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Yeah if I’m given a choice between two guys who are the same in every way why would I not choose the one who has reach lol. You’ve never tried changing a lightbulb while short? I know from dating a tall guy it’s nice to have someone who can lift you up easily, grab stuff from top shelves, generally do the tall guy stuff. But I also know from dating a short guy it’s not a big deal either way, I only answered how I did because you said they are identical in every other way

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

If you were given a choice between a two women who were identical in every way but one had nice boobs and ass, and the other one who was flat, which would you choose

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

I’m short and I can do all of the things you just described with no issue. The reason it’s offensive is because you automatically associated those kinda tasks with tall men, treating shortness like a disability.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Well I’m short and I can’t lmao. It’s a massive pain in the ass. How tall are you? Cause I was thinking like 5’1-5’4

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

I’m 5’6

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Dude I don’t think shortness is a disability I AM SHORT but i literally have watched my tall bf do things that are a massive pain in the ass for me, I meanwhile can do a bunch of things he can’t

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Oh well that’s a whole different ball game ur literally taller than me bro.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

Probably the second one since I like skinnier women. It’s not the same as height tho since weight is controllable

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

You said a guy who was the same height or an inch shorter than me. That would be freaking 5’1

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

Still shorter than average height… and in the “unattractive” category of height

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

I said curves. assume they are both skinny one just has boobs and the other doesn’t (you don’t control fat distribution)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Well if I was choosing between 5’6 and like 6’0 I’d actually choose 5’6 too much height difference is annoying, I just don’t want someone as tall as me if I could have someone a little taller

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

Honestly I’m still going with small boobs. I’ve been with bigger breasted women before but they were plus size. I feel like woman with smaller boobs would be more understandable/accommodating of my body dysmorphia and insecurity since she probably has to deal with similar feelings

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Again. Stick to peramiters of the question. The women are the EXACT same meaning both are thin, both are equally understanding about your body. One just has nice tits the other is flat

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

It’s more about relatability than it is about understanding. Small boobs and short height can both cause body image issues, which can be a relatable experience making the woman with smaller breasts more attractive in my opinion

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Again. The women are identical. If one has body image issues the other does too

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

But fair enough on the attractiveness part

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

Yes but those body issues won’t be the same. I’d relate more to the smaller chested lady more because I am short (both are considered conventionally unattractive traits) which is why if I had to pick I would choose small boobs even tho irl I don’t have any preference

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

Interesting…I didn’t think someone would find 5’6 to be an attractive height

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

depends on literally every other factor

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

Assuming they have the exact same personality only difference is their heights

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

then there would be no difference between them. height isn't important to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

Yes but if you had to pick one

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

girl with a freckle on her left shoulder or her right shoulder? you HAVE to pick

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

Left. Now can you answer my question

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

5'5, just to annoy you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Not necessarily. That’s not an end all be all thing. The height lengthening is though

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

No bc I don’t do hookups

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

Right but which one would you be more sexually attracted to?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

So that’s not your actual answer…smh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

maybe you have trouble with women not because of your height but because you don't listen to what they say to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

I don’t really have trouble getting women. It’s just that the girls that like me happen to be plus size which is a dealbreaker for me. I feel like if I was taller I would have more fit/skinny women into me.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

The one who doesn’t have lengthening

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

I meant to say that both guys are those heights naturally. So a 5’5 guy vs a 6’2 guy (no surgery). Which one would you be more sexually attracted to?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Who has the better personality?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

Same personality

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Then it wouldn’t matter

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

If you had to pick one which would you choose?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

It wouldn’t be you so idk why it matters to you that much you just want a gotcha moment

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

Idk if it’s me plenty of other short guys out there plenty of tall guys. I find your inability to answer a simple question very interesting. It’s almost like you know the answer would prove me right

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Point is it’s not about me. You can’t seem to pick which is weird

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Bc it won’t make a difference. Whomever I bond with is who I bond with. You wanted your little gotcha moment so you can say “so it doesn’t matter how a guy is he just has to be tall”. And yeah no that’s not gonna work. Your length surgery would make me pick a tall natural guy by default without him doing anything

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

Bruh…out of the options given NONE of them had surgery they are those heights naturally. You’re either a master of deflection or have the reading comprehension skills of a potato

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

No you just want a gotcha so you’re deflecting bc you can’t get the incel answers you want. Ba bye now

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

You can’t answer the question yet claim I’m deflecting 😂 I’ll accept whatever your answer is if you are intellectually capable of understanding the question

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

I did answer you just didn’t like it. So…idk what to tell you bc you’re stuck on this after two days. If it was you vs a tall guy I’d pick the tall guy bc this is sad

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

I’ve never actually met a tall guy so fixated on height being his personality either so I’d prob date them bc they aren’t freakishly annoying

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

You didn’t answer tho you picked a different choice which was not an option. It’s A or B you picked C. Understand?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

Women’s unrealistic heigh standards are what causes insecurity and “freakishly annoying” obsession in the first place

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

No bc we’re tired of your incel vague options. So either take the answer or shut up. Stop making biased ass posts that are very unrealistic or be blocked

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Comical. Women don’t have unrealistic standards you’re just annoying to the point women are sick of dating immature unconfident men so they go for the men clearly unbothered. And I truly don’t blame them. Bc I’ve never seen height as a big deal. Just tall guys are less cocky about height as a specific factor than short men. I had a guy say I wouldn’t like him bc he’s 5’8…yet I liked HIM first so I knew it wouldn’t last long

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

So I knew what his height was. It is what it is 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

That’s cap..short men aren’t even considered as options. 5’8 is average. It would be pretty easy being unbothered by something if it’s what the opposite sex desired. No woman desires a short man

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

So what I hear is that if you were taller- you would have more women that superficially care about height- interested in you? And you are looking for a more superficial girl? Right. 🤦‍♀️

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