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I don’t like being friends with male centered people & I friended a girl who I thought was really cool but all she talks about is how much guys want her & how she “obviously doesn’t want them” is it rude to tell her I wanna talk about real things I do try
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Anonymous 4w

No it’s not rude

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Anonymous 4w

She sounds like she’s full of herself. I would never want to be friends with someone like that

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Anonymous 4w

It’s not rude, but it will change your relationship likely for the worse. The “real” things she wants to talk about will always come back to men. The whole thing about being male-centered is that everything they do will be influenced and directly relate to men. Everything else will come last

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Anonymous 4w

I have a friend just like that and it sucks bc she’s my closest friend in college but all she ever wants to talk about is her roster and finding new men. And a couple times we’ve been drunk together with some of my other friends, and I just think it’s so embarrassing bc she’d be talking very loudly about how she just wants dick

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Anonymous 4w

She also might not be that deep of a person. Not to sound rude, but that might be the reason

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Anonymous 4w

my roommate last year was like this. she’d brag to me about how many guys wanted her, lead all of them on, talk to all of them at once, eventually it ends and she goes crazy and stalks them. but then got super jealous and upset when i started dating my boyfriend (the first and only guy i ever talked to in college)😭 it’s like she could get a bf if she just put in the effort but it was so hard to hear bc she was doing it to herself tbh. but nonetheless her ego was just way way too high

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Anonymous 4w

At first I thought your post was about a girl who has just mostly guy friends, but then I finished reading and well… she just sounds like an attention seeker lol. Tell her if the guys wanting her actually bugs her, she should get new friends or stop trying to lead them on.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

Agreed

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