
Girl that’s just a fact of life. Our orgasms are notoriously finicky. I mean for me personally, everything could be going right and then a sunbeam peeks through the curtains and hits my leg and I lose all momentum. I can simply sense a bug in the room and it pulls me out of it. I suggest taking some time to be present when you’re by yourself and see what’s making you tick and what gets you there. Focus on those sensations when you’re with a guy. Now… whether or not he knows what to do depends.