Ask Women on Sidechat | FWB question: should I ask my partner if they’re sleeping w other people? I don’t want to come off as jealous, but I’m overthinking about STDs and catching something. I’m afraid they’re going to interpret it as jealousy or nosiness. What should I do?

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FWB question: should I ask my partner if they’re sleeping w other people? I don’t want to come off as jealous, but I’m overthinking about STDs and catching something. I’m afraid they’re going to interpret it as jealousy or nosiness. What should I do?

Anonymous 1d

Just say that! "Hey no judgement are you intimate with others? And if so are you getting trusted?" Ive asked this many times and has never been met weirdly

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Anonymous 1d

absolutely should be a conversation. you can preface by being like hey no big deal just concerned about safety

Anonymous 1d

you could phrase it in terms of that. "hey you always wear a condom right?"

Anonymous 21h

Yes. I got chlamydia from head because my FWB was sleeping with someone else and wasn’t getting tested.

Anonymous 4h

STDs are not that serious in reality lol. it's an American stuck-up stigma bullshit thing. Get over it and grow up tbh 🙃

Anonymous 1d

Did you just get out of a relationship

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Anonymous 23h

Kpo

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Anonymous 1d

who cares

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Anonymous

#2 1d

Should this be smth I do in person or over text?

Anonymous

OP 1d

Definitely in person. Tone is much easier to read face to face

Anonymous

#1 22h

Awful question. No, just ask if they have other sexual partners.

Anonymous

#5 4h

🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

Anonymous

#7 4h

lol thanks for proving my point. So small-minded 🥱